什么是夫妇？什么是家？什么是幸福？
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">什么是<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《周易·序卦》：“有天地，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>有万物，有万物<span style="color: black;">而后</span>有男女，有男女<span style="color: black;">而后</span>有夫妇，有夫妇<span style="color: black;">而后</span>有父子，有父子<span style="color: black;">而后</span>有君臣。” 人类社会的父子、君臣、兄弟、<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>等一切人伦关系都<span style="color: black;">是由于</span>夫妇的结合而派生出来的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《中庸》说：“君子之道，造端乎夫妇。” 夫妇关系是人伦的起点，儒家<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>之为“大伦”。正如《史记》所强调的：“夫妇之际，人道之大伦<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">古人将<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>关系置于君子修养<span style="color: black;">自己</span>的起点，而它最高深的境界，是与天地间的正道相通的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因为</span><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>关系能够衍生出父子、兄弟姐妹、亲族等一系列关系，<span style="color: black;">最后</span>编织成<span style="color: black;">全部</span>社会的关系网。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因而<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>关系是<span style="color: black;">全部</span>家族关系中的重中之重，<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>各守其道，各守本分，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>让家庭和睦，家风端正。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>之道是关乎国家兴亡盛衰的大事，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">所说</span>的“父父，子子，兄兄，弟弟，夫夫，妇妇，而家道正；正家而天下定矣”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">儒家文化把<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>、父子、君臣、长幼、<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，定为五<span style="color: black;">成人</span>伦，更有了“修身、齐家、治国、平天下”的道德理想。齐家在治国之先，欲齐家先正<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>之道。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“家常便饭粗布衣，知冷知热是<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>。”<span style="color: black;">针对</span>普通生活<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>就是能</span><span style="color: black;">互相知冷知热，懂得彼此之间的辛苦<span style="color: black;">疲劳</span>和喜怒哀乐的伴侣。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“结发为<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>，恩爱两不疑。”<span style="color: black;">针对</span>家族兴旺<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>好比一个家族兴旺的翅膀，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>齐心协力，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>子孙强盛，一代更比一代强。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“百年修得同舟，千年修得共枕。”来到这个世界，能结为</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>来<span style="color: black;">一起</span>修行，<span style="color: black;">一起</span>成就的。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">结婚</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是围城，城外的想进来，城里的想出去。<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>是最难的修行，<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>则是舒服着的<span style="color: black;">懊恼</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">相爱<span style="color: black;">一生</span>，争吵<span style="color: black;">一生</span>，忍耐<span style="color: black;">一生</span>，这<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>。</strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">什么是家？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有父、有母、有子，才是一个完整的“家”。有子，才有父母。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>，有父母谓之有“家”。而父母所居之所，<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>为“庭”，<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>而有了“家庭”之名。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《周易》六十四卦有一卦曰“家人”，即是讲“家”的。家人卦之卦辞曰：“家人，利女贞。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《彖》曰：家人，女正位乎内，男正位乎外。男女正，天地之大义<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。家人有严君焉，父母之谓<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。父父，子子，兄兄，弟弟，夫夫，妇妇，而家道正。正家而天下定矣。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">朱熹曰：“利女贞者，欲先正乎内<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。内正则外<span style="color: black;">没</span>不正矣。”在家里，<span style="color: black;">女性</span>的<span style="color: black;">功效</span>与<span style="color: black;">道理</span><span style="color: black;">显出</span>尤为<span style="color: black;">要紧</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">程颐曰：“家人之道，必有所尊严而君长者，谓父母<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。虽一家之小，<span style="color: black;">没</span>尊严则孝敬衰，<span style="color: black;">没</span>君长则法度废。有严君而后家道正，家者国之则<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“父父”，即父要像个父，要行父道；“子子”，即子要像个子，要行子道；“兄兄”，即兄要像个兄，要行兄道；“弟弟”，即弟要像个弟，要行弟道；“夫夫”，即夫要像个夫，要行夫道；“妇妇”，即妇要像个妇，要行妇道。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">父道是什么？"</span><span style="color: black;">养不教，父之过。" 且</span><span style="color: black;">父慈则子孝；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">子道是什么？《孝经》：<span style="color: black;">“夫孝，天之经<span style="color: black;">亦</span>，地之义<span style="color: black;">亦</span>，人之行<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。”“身体发肤，受之父母，不敢毁伤”，是孝之始；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“立身行道，扬名于后世，以显父母”，是孝之终。“孝”的<span style="color: black;">详细</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>，则是</span><span style="color: black;">“居则致其敬，养则致其乐，病则致其忧，丧则致其哀，祭则致其严。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">兄道和弟道是什么？兄友、弟恭。兄待弟友善，弟待兄恭敬；</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">夫道是什么？夫为乾，乾，<span style="color: black;">“天行健，君子以自强不息。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">妇道是什么？妇为坤，坤，“地势坤，君子以厚德载物。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>一体，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>男女有别，专长各异，正是“一阴一阳谓之道”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">男子<span style="color: black;">表率</span>阳刚，女子<span style="color: black;">表率</span>阴柔。古人<span style="color: black;">按照</span>阴阳之道，确立了“男尊女卑”“男主外、女主内”的家庭伦理。</span><span style="color: black;">这个尊卑，非高贵与卑贱，而是取法天地得出的生活智慧。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">天属阳，在上为尊，<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着男子处事要像天<span style="color: black;">同样</span>刚毅，自强不息；地属阴，在下为卑，<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着女子为人应像地<span style="color: black;">同样</span>谦卑重德，<span style="color: black;">包涵</span>万事。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而不和睦的家庭，“父不慈则子不孝，兄不友则弟不恭，夫不义则妇不顺矣。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>，家是一份责任，家是一份重担，家是亲情所系，家<span style="color: black;">更加是</span>一个人身心的归属。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">持有</span>家时，它平凡如柴米油盐酱醋茶；失去家时，掏心掏肝<span style="color: black;">亦</span>找不回。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">什么是<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《白虎通》曰：“婚者，昏时行礼，故曰婚。“ 姻，本义指夫家，《说文》曰：“姻，婿家<span style="color: black;">亦</span>，女之所因，故曰姻。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《礼记》说：“昏礼者，将合二姓之好，上以事宗庙，而下以继后世<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。故君子重之。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">结婚</span>绝不是两个当事人自己的私事，而是“上以事宗庙，下以继后世”的大事。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">结婚</span>承担着发扬<span style="color: black;">先辈</span>事业、使<span style="color: black;">先辈</span>宗脉传承下去的重任，</span>两姓联姻的质量和稳定性关系到宗族<span style="color: black;">是不是</span>昌盛。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>现代人而言，<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>就象一桌酒席，爱是主食，宽容、理解、信任、尊重<span style="color: black;">便是</span>一道道菜，欣赏、幽默、趣味<span style="color: black;">便是</span>酒和饮料。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">仅有</span><span style="color: black;">同期</span>具备<span style="color: black;">以上</span>几个品种的酒席，才算得上完美<span style="color: black;">没</span>缺的酒席。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“执子之手，与子偕老。”<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>里<span style="color: black;">必须</span><span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的责任与承担。</span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">什么是幸福？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">有家<span style="color: black;">便是</span>幸福。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">家是一个放松的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，让人心情舒畅，怡然自得。累了，烦了，伤了，痛了……还有家<span style="color: black;">能够</span>回。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在家里，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>完全敞开心扉，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>完全<span style="color: black;">持有</span>信任，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>充分得到理解……</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有家，就足以让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>感到满足。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有个相守的另一半<span style="color: black;">便是</span>幸福。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">人生之路多烦忧，有个人能<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>着自己走过风风雨雨，相互扶持，<span style="color: black;">一起</span>撑起一个温暖的家，到老了，依然相守在身旁，这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>“执子之手，与子偕老”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">有子女<span style="color: black;">便是</span>幸福。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>是自己生命的延续，当你亲眼看着自己的子女<span style="color: black;">成长</span>成人，一代一代这么传承下去，你能说这不是一种幸福吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">有<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>幸福。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，快乐就有人分享，伤痛有人安抚，<span style="color: black;">懊恼</span>有人聆听……</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不管在身边还是在远方，只<span style="color: black;">想要</span>到有<span style="color: black;">那样</span>几个人老惦记着自己，就能体会到，幸福其实<span style="color: black;">没</span>处不在。</span></p>
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