f9yx0du 发表于 2024-7-20 11:57:33

孩儿说话没礼貌，父母该怎么做？5个技巧巧引导


    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>自家<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>言行举止<span style="color: black;">再也不</span>礼貌，家长肯定会感到纠结和烦心。<span style="color: black;">那样</span>，怎么<span style="color: black;">才可</span>纠正<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的不良<span style="color: black;">行径</span>呢？<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>有<span style="color: black;">有些</span>策略解答这个<span style="color: black;">困难</span>：理解并尊重<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的感受。</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="//k.sinaimg.cn/n/sinakd20240507s/267/w640h427/20240507/31a9-3d579e7318d4c6f45999163aae211ea7.jpg/w700d1q75cms.jpg?by=cms_fixed_width" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">小明是个挺活泼可爱的小<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>有时候他会在心里有点儿不痛快<span style="color: black;">或</span>紧张的时候，说出<span style="color: black;">有些</span>让人听着不舒服的话。<span style="color: black;">例如</span>说，有一回他<span style="color: black;">由于</span>妈妈没能马上满足他的愿望，就冲着妈妈大喊：“你怎么这么烦人啊！”听到这话，妈妈心里可难受了，觉得这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>对她付出的全盘否定，<span style="color: black;">基本</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>不尊重嘛！</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="//k.sinaimg.cn/n/sinakd20240507s/267/w640h427/20240507/d4b9-056ded00b5a709259b463b22a42f76b0.jpg/w700d1q75cms.jpg?by=cms_fixed_width" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　面对不礼貌的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>正确的反应是什么？</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　面对这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，爸妈们的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>反应可能<span style="color: black;">便是</span>火冒三丈，忍不住要责怪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>几句。<span style="color: black;">不外</span>，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>做真的管用吗？</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">其实啊，专家们<span style="color: black;">意见</span>，爸妈们最好还是先冷静下来，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>试着去理解<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>心里到底是怎么想的，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>到底想要啥。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们可能并不是故意要伤爸妈的心，只是<span style="color: black;">她们</span>还没学会怎么用更恰当的方式来表达自己的心情罢了。</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="//k.sinaimg.cn/n/sinakd20240507s/262/w640h422/20240507/3879-e9485bb02397df6d2b47630034613cdb.jpg/w700d1q75cms.jpg?by=cms_fixed_width" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">说到教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>讲礼貌这件事，可<span style="color: black;">不但</span>是告诉<span style="color: black;">她们</span>什么是对的，什么是错的<span style="color: black;">那样</span>简单，更关键的是要<span style="color: black;">经过</span><span style="color: black;">实质</span>行动来引导<span style="color: black;">她们</span>。<span style="color: black;">例如</span>，当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说出不得体的话时，爸妈们<span style="color: black;">能够</span>心平气和地跟<span style="color: black;">她们</span>解释为啥那句话<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>听，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>再给出一个更好的说法。接着，就要鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>跟着学，多练习这种更有礼貌的说话方式啦！</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当然啦，爸妈们<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要懂得去理解和尊重<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的感受。这<span style="color: black;">便是</span>说，要认真听听<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们的想法，把<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的感受放在心上，并且在必要的时候给<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span><span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>。<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一来，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们不仅能学到礼貌待人，还能感受到爸妈对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的理解和尊重呢！</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="//k.sinaimg.cn/n/sinakd20240507s/267/w640h427/20240507/7b86-2611d6940a803a298eb70cd695ab1bc3.jpg/w700d1q75cms.jpg?by=cms_fixed_width" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　<span style="color: black;">那样</span>，<span style="color: black;">详细</span>该怎么做呢？</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　其实啊，在<span style="color: black;">平常</span>生活中，爸妈们只要<span style="color: black;">根据</span>下面这五步走就能<span style="color: black;">容易</span>应对啦：</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　1. 做好<span style="color: black;">典范</span>：<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们都是<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>模仿<span style="color: black;">成人</span>的，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>爸妈们<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要时刻<span style="color: black;">重视</span>自己的言行举止，<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>做到礼貌待人，尊重他人。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　2. 保持良好的沟通：要经常跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们开诚布公地聊天，<span style="color: black;">认识</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>心里到底在想什么，有什么样的感受。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">3. 立规矩：告诉<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们<span style="color: black;">那些</span><span style="color: black;">行径</span>是<span style="color: black;">能够</span>接受的，<span style="color: black;">那些</span>是<span style="color: black;">不可</span>容忍的，并且设立好相应的奖惩制度。</p>
    <div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="//k.sinaimg.cn/n/sinakd20240507s/267/w640h427/20240507/5bbb-246db55f34cc803a27bcfcf617bb6954.jpg/w700d1q75cms.jpg?by=cms_fixed_width" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　4. 多夸赞：当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们在改正错误<span style="color: black;">行径</span>上有所进步时，<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要<span style="color: black;">即时</span>给予肯定和鼓励哦！</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">　　5. 找好<span style="color: black;">典范</span>：<span style="color: black;">没</span>论是家长还是老师，都要做好表率<span style="color: black;">功效</span>，引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们向正确的方向发展。</p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最后，我想说的是，教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>讲礼貌这件事儿，真的是一门艺术，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一段漫长的旅程。<span style="color: black;">必须</span>爸妈们拿出足够的耐心、智慧和爱心，一点一滴地去引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们成长。让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>加油，为了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们的明天，<span style="color: black;">一起</span><span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>吧！</p>










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