原创 高考前与高考后，天上与地下的区别，高考生：我再亦不是保护动物了
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">高考<span style="color: black;">刚才</span>结束，相信许多考生和家长都感受到了这段时间的变化。考生们<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许正在享受放松的时光，而家长们却<span style="color: black;">起始</span><span style="color: black;">调节</span>自己的生活方式和<span style="color: black;">心理</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">记得当年我高考的时候，考试前夕<span style="color: black;">每日</span>早餐不落，吃得丰富营养，家长无微不至地照顾。可一旦高考结束，早餐想吃<span style="color: black;">无</span>，成天面条，偶尔还得自己动手，懒觉<span style="color: black;">亦</span>挨骂。<strong style="color: blue;">从原来“重点<span style="color: black;">守护</span>动物”瞬间变<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>“普普通通的四害”。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">01</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">高考后的现实</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">近期</span>看到一个视频，一位父亲在卧室门口，对着屋里的儿子喊话：“吕东泽，高考完了，你是熊猫<span style="color: black;">已然</span>变成狗熊了。不是说你想吃啥给你做啥，而是有啥你吃啥，你明白不？”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q0.itc.cn/images01/20240608/53cc47ff807746ccba376e2f85aa604e.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">笑死了，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>只是想吃爸爸做的鸡蛋饼，结果爸爸给他买来了油条。儿子不吃，回了房间，这才有了爸爸儿子隔着房间门喊话的一幕。令人意外的是，吕东泽在屋里回道：“狗熊<span style="color: black;">亦</span>得<span style="color: black;">守护</span>啊！”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这段对话<span style="color: black;">诱发</span>了网友的<span style="color: black;">热榜</span>。有网友总结得很贴切：</p><strong style="color: blue;">高考前：<span style="color: black;">守护</span>动物</strong><strong style="color: blue;">高考时：国家重点<span style="color: black;">守护</span>动物</strong><strong style="color: blue;">高考完：四害</strong>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">高考后的“<span style="color: black;">薪水</span>”差别</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">高考前夕，家长们无微不至，几乎要把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>宠上天；然而高考一结束，<span style="color: black;">薪水</span>似乎立即大幅缩水。早餐顿顿不落，变<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>有啥吃啥，睡个懒觉<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会挨骂。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">考前“七荤八素”，考后“清汤寡水”。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>成绩好，可能摆一桌宴席庆祝；成绩<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，可能再<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不提。这种反差过于真实，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>难免让人感到扎心。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q7.itc.cn/images01/20240608/7b13eba7533040e69318fefb49e3bd75.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">高考结束后，家长们的态度变化多样。有些父母觉得<span style="color: black;">最终</span>解放了，<span style="color: black;">不消</span>再操心这个“小兔崽子”，打算当甩手掌柜，享受自己的生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但等到<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>真的上学走了，内心又变得<span style="color: black;">繁杂</span>，有些父母觉得自己<span style="color: black;">最终</span>自由了，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>出去旅游，享受二人世界。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但时间一长，心里又会觉得空落落的。原来在身边叽叽喳喳、爱顶嘴的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一走，家里竟然这么平淡。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">02</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>高考结束，<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着家长进入了养育的第四<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：放手<span style="color: black;">周期</span>。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的求学之路即将展开，<span style="color: black;">将来</span>充满无限可能，而家长要做的<span style="color: black;">便是</span>站在原地，放手让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>走远。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在这段时间里，家长与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的沟通会越来越少，但这并不<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着关系就此淡化。恰恰相反，这是一段父母与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">创立</span>新型关系的重要时刻。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q1.itc.cn/images01/20240608/e49a801d98d2424ca977b343692b4a78.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的四个成长<span style="color: black;">周期</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我<span style="color: black;">始终</span>认为<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长<span style="color: black;">能够</span>分为四个<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">喂养<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：</strong>这是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>出生到学龄前的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>。家长的<span style="color: black;">重点</span>任务是喂饱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，照顾好他的<span style="color: black;">平常</span>起居。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">管教<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：</strong>这是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>懂事到青春期前的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>。家长<span style="color: black;">必须</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>立规矩，让他懂得基本的<span style="color: black;">行径</span>规范和礼仪。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">教育<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：</strong>这是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>上学后的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>。家长有能力的<span style="color: black;">能够</span>辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习，<span style="color: black;">没法</span>辅导课业的家长<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要尝试与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，<span style="color: black;">一块</span>学习进步。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">放手<span style="color: black;">周期</span>：</strong>这是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>成年后的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>。家长<span style="color: black;">必须</span>放手让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>独立面对<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的生活和挑战。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">高考后的家长们，<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>你们<span style="color: black;">已然</span>处在第四<span style="color: black;">周期</span>了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">将来</span>与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的沟通机会会<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>减少，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>要<span style="color: black;">爱惜</span><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的时光，多陪陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，学着与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>。</strong><span style="color: black;">这般</span>不仅能保持亲密的关系，还能更好地支持<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q8.itc.cn/images01/20240608/4551aa372c46478188854ab86b1543ed.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">许多家长会<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>，当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不在身边时，家里变得<span style="color: black;">反常</span>平静。<span style="color: black;">本来</span>吵着吃这吃那的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">再也不</span>叨扰，家里的氛围<span style="color: black;">亦</span>变得冷清。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">总觉得带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>出去玩是个<span style="color: black;">负担</span>，但他上学走后，再看到的风景都变得平淡无奇。原来带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>出门的<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>日子，才是最宝贵的时光。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">果妈寄语</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">做为</span>家长，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>常常在养育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的过程中<span style="color: black;">忽略</span>了<span style="color: black;">自己</span>的成长。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的离开让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>感到空虚，但这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>重新审视自我、寻找新生活<span style="color: black;">目的</span>的机会。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不仅要学会放手，还要学会在放手后<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>继续丰富自己的生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">高考后的这段时间，<span style="color: black;">针对</span>家长和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都是一个全新的<span style="color: black;">起始</span>。<strong style="color: blue;">作为家长，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">必须</span><span style="color: black;">调节</span><span style="color: black;">心理</span>，接受<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长和独立，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要学会与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">创立</span>更加平等和融洽的关系。</strong>无论<span style="color: black;">将来</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>，<span style="color: black;">爱惜</span><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的时光，与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>共度每一个美好的瞬间，才是最重要的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>，高考结束后的家长们，放下心中的焦虑和期待，与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>享受这段宝贵的相处时光吧！</p>
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