“我兴趣三种人，一种是比我优秀的人，另一一种是使我优秀的人，还有一种便是愿意跟我一块变优秀的人。”
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">人民日报说：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“我<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>三种人，一种是比我优秀的人，<span style="color: black;">另一</span>一种是使我优秀的人，还有一种<span style="color: black;">便是</span>愿意跟我<span style="color: black;">一块</span>变优秀的人。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">向优秀的人看齐，会拓宽自己的见识和眼界；使<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>变得优秀的人，会源源<span style="color: black;">持续</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span>给<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>能量；有愿意<span style="color: black;">一块</span>变优秀的人相伴，幸福便近在咫尺触手可及。</span></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">1.比我优秀的人</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">跟优秀的人相处，你会惊讶<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的思考方式，从<span style="color: black;">她们</span>独立自主的观点中，感受到强大的差异性。更会为<span style="color: black;">她们</span>强大的执行力感到震撼，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>一旦有好的想法，便会<span style="color: black;">马上</span>去实践。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">人与人之间的差距一<span style="color: black;">起始</span>并不大，而是<span style="color: black;">因为</span>后天形成的<span style="color: black;">各样</span>各样的习惯，在时间的沉淀下，造<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>千差万别的影响。从优秀的人身上，总是能够看到<span style="color: black;">她们</span>与众<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的闪光点。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">有一句话说的是：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“想要成<span style="color: black;">为何</span>样的人，就<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>靠近什么样的人。余生，选对圈子，与优秀者同行，遇见更好的自己。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">但<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不要妄自菲薄，任何光鲜亮丽的人，本质上都是和你我<span style="color: black;">同样</span>的普通人。<span style="color: black;">不外</span>在<span style="color: black;">长期</span>的<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>下，汇聚在<span style="color: black;">她们</span>身上的<span style="color: black;">优良</span>，使<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在茫茫人海中脱颖而出。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">我以前看到<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>比我厉害的人，经常背地里感叹<span style="color: black;">她们</span>年少有为，谴责自己一无是处。</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">后来我<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>其实<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人都有自己的专长，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有自己的闪光点。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">她们</span>不被<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>，<span style="color: black;">或</span>还<span style="color: black;">处在</span>萌芽<span style="color: black;">周期</span>，但不<span style="color: black;">表率</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">学会祛魅是<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人<span style="color: black;">一辈子</span>的课题，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>总是给<span style="color: black;">哪些</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>得到的东西<span style="color: black;">增多</span>滤镜。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">有些人醒悟得早走得更快，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>很晚才出发，目的并不是为了超过<span style="color: black;">她们</span>。攀比只会让生活变得更加焦虑和痛苦。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>只需要向<span style="color: black;">她们</span>看齐，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>比以前的自己更进一步。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">2.使我优秀的人</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">父母<span style="color: black;">始终</span>都是<span style="color: black;">促进</span>我变得更好的动力。我感激<span style="color: black;">她们</span>养育了我，把我带大成人。虽然我和<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">同样</span>不善于表达，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>我发自内心充满感激。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">以前不是<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的。以前我对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>心怀怨恨。小时候<span style="color: black;">她们</span>经常吵架，还闹过离婚。有段时间<span style="color: black;">她们</span>对我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>爱搭<span style="color: black;">不睬</span>，我感受不到<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的关心，感受不到来自父母的爱。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">但<span style="color: black;">她们</span>从来<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">损伤</span>过我。我在自由生长的<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>尽力去呵护我。我在学习上<span style="color: black;">特别有</span><span style="color: black;">天分</span>，从乡下破烂的小学考进县里最好的初中，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>是高中，<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">始终</span>陪着我督促我学习，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>失望。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">我想快快<span style="color: black;">成长</span>，想早点承担起肩上的责任，我不<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>愁眉苦脸，想经常看到<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的微笑。我还想带<span style="color: black;">她们</span>去北京，去<span style="color: black;">她们</span>从未去过的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">想做的<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>，总有一天会实现。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">3.愿意跟我<span style="color: black;">一块</span>变优秀的人</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">真正的爱情是什么？</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在电影《傲慢与偏见》里给<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span>了一个答案：</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">最好的爱情是两人势均力敌不分<span style="color: black;">手足</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其实能遇到一个愿意陪你<span style="color: black;">一块</span>变好的人，是人生莫大的幸事。不是<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人都会在<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>变好的过程中，遇到一个善解人意又足够懂你的爱人。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>人都是在变得很好了之后，才利用所取得的资源和<span style="color: black;">要求</span>，去物色一个如意的伴侣。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">人民日报说：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“命运有三个转折点：原生家庭、<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>伴侣、觉醒的自己。若<span style="color: black;">无</span>优越的家庭，如意的伴侣，就<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要唤醒强大的自己。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>许<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>自己，像个<span style="color: black;">数年</span>的老<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">同样</span>不离不弃，始终陪在身边，陪着<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>慢慢变好。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">学会和自己相处，不必把身心<span style="color: black;">委托</span>在别人身上。遇到了自然敞开怀抱热烈欢迎，遇不到<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不碍事</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>都要和自己做<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">没遇见你时我过得很好，遇见你之后我会变得更好。</span></strong>愿<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">作为</span>最好的自己，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能遇到最爱的人。</span></p>
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