原创 暑假孩儿总看电视，问作业就不耐烦，一个字都不写，怎么办？
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">01</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">有家长提问说，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在家总是看电视，每次问起作业<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，总是不耐烦地回答“写完了”，但<span style="color: black;">实质</span>却一个字没动。面对<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，<span style="color: black;">到底</span>该怎么办呢？</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我想起老家的表姐，她总是忙于工作，对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的管教相对较少。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">每次见到<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，表姐都会例行公事地问一句：“作业做了吗？”</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>回答“做了”，表姐便<span style="color: black;">安心</span>地继续玩手机；</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>孩子回答“没做”，表姐<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只是数落两句，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>催促<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去写作业，自己依然玩手机。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q3.itc.cn/images01/20240812/5079a3a35334455eb866a9d2cca8009a.png" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，无论<span style="color: black;">实质</span>做没做作业，妈妈的反应都没太大区别。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>，敷衍一句“做了”，就能换来耳根清静，何乐而不为呢？</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">02</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">面对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>暑假在家看电视、不做作业的问题，家长们其实有两个<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>种<span style="color: black;">选取</span>是“放养式”管理。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">家长<span style="color: black;">能够</span>完全不管<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，让他继续<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>地看电视，享受无忧无虑的假期。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当然，这种<span style="color: black;">选取</span>的后果<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很<span style="color: black;">显著</span>：<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在临开学的时候将不得不面对堆积如山的作业，用一盏灯、一支笔创造一个“奇迹”，疯狂补作业以应付差事。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这种方式虽然给了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一个<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的暑假，但开学前的忙碌和焦虑<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是难以避免的。<span style="color: black;">况且</span>，<span style="color: black;">长时间</span>下去，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>可能会养成拖延、不负责任的习惯，对学习和生活产生<span style="color: black;">消极</span>影响。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q3.itc.cn/images01/20240812/0f7ad005a2a24e7288671781293742c9.png" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">第二种<span style="color: black;">选取</span>则是“上手式”管理。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说“做完了”作业时，家长<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>他把写完的作业拿出来<span style="color: black;">检测</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>盘点作业完成<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，制定<span style="color: black;">仔细</span>的计划，<span style="color: black;">包含</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>写了多少、还剩下多少、多<span style="color: black;">长期</span>能写完等。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而后</span>，<span style="color: black;">根据</span>计划一步步执行，<span style="color: black;">每日</span>监督<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的进度。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">暑假<span style="color: black;">时期</span>，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>玩、<span style="color: black;">能够</span>看电视，但<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要按照计划完成学习任务。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">家长需要与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>制定计划，并监督计划的执行。<span style="color: black;">每日</span>回家问问<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>计划完成得怎么样，<span style="color: black;">检测</span><span style="color: black;">检测</span>，督促督促。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这般</span>的<span style="color: black;">实质</span>行动虽然比简单地问一句“作业做完了吗”要耗费<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的时间和精力，但却能有效避免<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的敷衍和拖延。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q5.itc.cn/images01/20240812/cb9c4b2440574cd693b2a524e4aabd08.png" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">经过</span>这种方式，家长<span style="color: black;">能够</span>引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>养成良好的学习习惯和时间管理能力，为<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的学习和生活打下坚实的<span style="color: black;">基本</span>。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">03</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">当然，无论<span style="color: black;">选取</span>哪种方式，天都不会塌下来。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>种<span style="color: black;">选取</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一个<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的暑假和<span style="color: black;">有效</span>率的开学前两天；</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">第二种<span style="color: black;">选取</span>则让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>有计划、有<span style="color: black;">过程</span>、有条不紊地度过暑假，既有娱乐<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有学习。家长们<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">按照</span>自己的<span style="color: black;">实质</span><span style="color: black;">状况</span>和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的性格特点来做出合适的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">不外</span>，无论<span style="color: black;">选取</span>哪种方式，家长们都需要<span style="color: black;">重视</span>以下几点：</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">首要</span>，要与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>进行充分地沟通。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">认识</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的想法和<span style="color: black;">需要</span>，尊重<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的个性和兴趣。在制定计划或进行管教时，要<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>达成共识，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>感受到家长的关心和支持。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">其次，要给予<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>适当的自由和空间。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">暑假是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>放松和娱乐的时期，家长<span style="color: black;">不该</span>该过度限制<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的活动。在<span style="color: black;">保准</span>学习任务完成的前提下，<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">准许</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>适当地看电视、玩游戏等。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="//q1.itc.cn/images01/20240812/5bfe8379f706466c9157d7709270b500.png" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">最后，要注重<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的全面发展。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">暑假不仅是学习的时期，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>发展其他兴趣和技能的时期。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">家长<span style="color: black;">能够</span>鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>参加<span style="color: black;">有些</span>有益的活动或课程，如体育运动、艺术创作、社会实践等，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在多方面得到<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>和成长。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">总之，面对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>暑假在家看电视、不做作业的问题，家长们需要冷静思考、<span style="color: black;">选取</span>合适的方式进行处理。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">暑假<span style="color: black;">便是</span>要快乐的玩耍呀，在<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的玩耍之余，把作业做完，把学习任务完成，简直<span style="color: black;">便是</span>个完美的暑假了！</strong><a style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">返回<span style="color: black;">外链论坛： http://www.fok120.com</span>，查看<span style="color: black;">更加多</span></span></a></p>
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