婆媳互相补台，家庭才可好戏连台
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">作者：王姗姗</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孙子小宝刚满月，我就被儿子接去帮忙看<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。儿子事先跟我交代：“刘慧工作忙，又是单位领导，习惯了指挥，家务基本不沾手。咱俩<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>做好后勤，我买菜洗衣，你照顾<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，有啥事跟我说。”我明白儿子的意思：“<span style="color: black;">安心</span>吧，妈心里有数。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">儿媳刘慧是典型的女强人，<span style="color: black;">办事</span>有条有理。</span><span style="color: black;">她交给我一张表格，<span style="color: black;">需求</span>我<span style="color: black;">每日</span>记录小宝的大便形状、次数，喂几次奶、每次喂多少毫升。她还把小宝的作息时间以及我的<span style="color: black;">重视</span>事项打印出来，<span style="color: black;">需求</span>我一一落实。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">为完成任务，我严格<span style="color: black;">根据</span>她的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>做，神经紧绷，总怕出错，觉得养个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>太费劲了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">可让我没想到的是，还有更费劲的事。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一天，我正唱着儿歌哄小宝睡觉，刘慧<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>说：“妈，你老说方言，会把小宝带偏的。”儿子帮腔：“<span style="color: black;">便是</span>啊，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>小宝说一口方言，会被小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>笑话的。”我心中不悦：“我<span style="color: black;">始终</span>都说方言，咋办？”刘慧一指小度音箱：“你多听听<span style="color: black;">资讯</span>，跟着说，<span style="color: black;">火速</span>就能改过来。”尽管不乐意，我还是答应了。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">过了两天，小宝<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>发起了烧，儿子儿媳都不在家，我就用土办法给他捏脊加推背，又用姜水给他泡脚，居然给他退了烧。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">刘慧<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>后夸我：“妈，你真厉害！”我心里正美，她话锋一转：“<strong style="color: blue;">网上有小儿<span style="color: black;">按摩</span>课，你系统学学吧！</strong>”我连忙摆手：“我都多大岁数了，学不会！”刘慧说：“你有<span style="color: black;">基本</span>，肯定能学会，我把学费都交过了。”一看没了退路，又怕浪费钱，我只好同意。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">没想到学了还真有用，以前小宝有点儿小毛病就得跑医院，我学了<span style="color: black;">按摩</span>手法，他有个头疼脑热的，在家就能<span style="color: black;">处理</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">刘慧见我学习有成效，又给我网购了营养辅食及早教课。学习很累，我忍不住跟儿子<span style="color: black;">抱怨</span>，儿子劝我：“都是为了小宝，受点儿累<span style="color: black;">亦</span>值。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">转眼小宝3岁了。一天<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>，他正在看英文动画片《小猪佩奇》，我一句<span style="color: black;">亦</span>听不懂。<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>他问我：“奶奶，皮革是小猪吗？”我不假思索道：“皮革怎么可能是猪？”刘慧却纠正：“pig<span style="color: black;">便是</span>猪。小宝真聪明，一学就会。”我恍然大悟：“猪皮能做皮革，难怪是猪的意思。”刘慧笑了：“妈，你这是谐音记忆法，怪不得你普通话进步<span style="color: black;">那样</span>快，简直是语言天才！”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">听她一夸，我心里直发毛，怕她又给我<span style="color: black;">部署</span>新任务。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">可怕什么来什么，她拿起手机说：“妈，你学学英语吧！”我惊叫：“我一个农村老太太，怎么能学会英语？你别折腾我了！”我决定，不管她说啥坚决不学。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">小区邻居王大姐和我<span style="color: black;">同样</span>给儿子看<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。我忍不住跟她吐槽：“儿媳啥<span style="color: black;">皆想</span>让我学，恨不得我上知天文，下知地理，无所不知。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">王大姐笑道：“<strong style="color: blue;">妹子，听儿媳的没错。为了家庭和谐你就学吧！</strong>你看我，刚来看孙女时体重80多<span style="color: black;">千克</span>，儿媳让我减肥，说开家长会<span style="color: black;">不可</span>给孙女丢脸。我减了近20<span style="color: black;">千克</span>，<span style="color: black;">不仅</span>身材苗条了，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>更健康了。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我难以置信：“当个奶奶这么难吗？”王大姐说：“要当个合格奶奶，必须与时俱进。”就<span style="color: black;">这般</span>，我在王大姐的劝说下又学起了英语。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">其实我挺佩服刘慧，<span style="color: black;">办事</span>雷厉风行，生活<span style="color: black;">特别有</span>规律，<span style="color: black;">每日</span><span style="color: black;">保持</span><span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>，一有时间就处理工作，还不忘学习，对小宝的<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>很高。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">小宝上幼儿园后，她说男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>应该自立，<span style="color: black;">起始</span>教小宝叠被子、洗衣服、做家务。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>这么小就自己洗衣服，我看着心疼，忍不住跟儿子抱怨，儿子劝我：</span><span style="color: black;">“听她的吧，毕竟她才是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的妈。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">可没<span style="color: black;">太多</span>久，小宝不干了，哭丧着脸说：</span><span style="color: black;">“幼儿园的小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>都有爸爸妈妈帮忙，<span style="color: black;">为何</span>我得自己做？</span><span style="color: black;">奶奶都说我还小，<span style="color: black;">不消</span>做这些事。</span><span style="color: black;">”我万万没想到，平时的抱怨居然被孙子记住了，还被他拿来当挡箭牌。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我赶紧打圆场：</span><span style="color: black;">“小宝，奶奶是瞎说的。</span><span style="color: black;">”刘慧气得把小宝骂了一顿，但小宝<span style="color: black;">亦</span>犯了倔，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>不干。</span><span style="color: black;">当晚刘慧饭都没吃，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不睬</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>，家里气氛很压抑。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">次日</span>我又跟王大姐<span style="color: black;">抱怨</span>。</span><span style="color: black;">王大姐说：</span><span style="color: black;">“教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">成人</span>的观点要一致。</span><span style="color: black;">我<span style="color: black;">意见</span>你们带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>参加<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>最热门的徒步旅行夏令营，换个环境试试。</span><span style="color: black;">”</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">本以为刘慧会反对参加夏令营，可没想到，当我一提出这个想法，她当即就同意了：</span><span style="color: black;">“妈，你带小宝去吧，我<span style="color: black;">近期</span>工作太忙，去不了。</span><span style="color: black;">”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">参加夏令营的都是城里<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，要在一个远离城市的村庄住</span><span style="color: black;">7天，住的是农村的四合院，其间由<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们完成老师<span style="color: black;">部署</span>的任务，家长只能旁观。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">刚到达目的地，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都很兴奋，有玩水的、玩土的，还有在田野里疯跑或捉蚂蚱的。<span style="color: black;">成人</span>们都举着手机给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们录视频。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">到了采摘<span style="color: black;">番茄</span>环节，不少<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">情况</span>百出：有的因体力不支，<span style="color: black;">步行到</span>半路就哭哭啼啼要回家；有的完全不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>采摘，不是把<span style="color: black;">番茄</span>捏得稀碎，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>把还未成熟的<span style="color: black;">番茄</span>给摘了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">小宝的表现令人刮目相看，<span style="color: black;">不仅</span>自己顺利完<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>任务，还非常耐心地<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>其他小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">我这才明白刘慧所说的“自立”有多重要。休息的时候，小宝还用自己的平板电脑给小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>播放英文动画片，有的小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>听不懂，他就给<span style="color: black;">她们</span>当翻译，不少家长都夸他英语水平高。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">7天过去，我带小宝回到家。或许是体验到了自立带来的成就感，他一见到刘慧就说：“妈妈，以后你让我做什么我都听你的！”刘慧高兴坏了：“宝贝<span style="color: black;">成长</span>了，懂事了呀！”说着转向我：“妈，参加夏令营效果真是好。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我不禁为当初偷偷跟儿子抱怨她感到有些<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>意思：“<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>我明白了，</span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">婆媳互相补台，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>好戏连台。</strong></span><span style="color: black;">以后咱们<span style="color: black;">一块</span><span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>，让小宝健康<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>成长！”</span></p>
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