做家务的男人：若她在你心上，家务三千又何妨？
<img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Fb2vJxYwgpJg3zvDbW7nWoeMbwt1VG4pQ5WFcBU1ibfcChwZKeh31tbhEbQx2TCI2Cejpt4UuQtGM24wv4zDPXw/640?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"> 点击上面“蓝字”关注，全能半吊子<img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CySIPTg4OChJaPZ0eFVxqicT0EibFRKfaFdY93hXIJgLniaV7mGANEl0AQ/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">[家务]</strong></span>到底谁来做？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">随着《做家务的男人》的热播，家务<span style="color: black;">作为</span>近期讨论热度<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">看着节目里各个家庭的表现，不禁感慨，现实生活中还是魏大勋家里面的男人更<span style="color: black;">平常</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">魏妈包揽一切家务，忙里忙外，纵使忙的像个陀螺<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，魏爸和魏大勋基本<span style="color: black;">无</span>帮忙的<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CjUEibZGkLR1fdzda8DcguxeqgxF2DO9MfP6kOUn3XuGGcLR2sDg6EAA/640?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">只要在家，基本的状态<span style="color: black;">便是</span>躺在沙发上，两个大男人<span style="color: black;">由于</span>在沙发上<span style="color: black;">各样</span>躺，被戏<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>为“沙发二子”，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>上了热搜！</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">网友在搞笑娱乐之余，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>渐渐对这个现象有了更深的思考。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">01</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">男人<span style="color: black;">为何</span>不干家务</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">男人不做家务<span style="color: black;">背面</span>有<span style="color: black;">必定</span>的社会<span style="color: black;">原由</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">一方面是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>：<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>之前的传统思想<span style="color: black;">便是</span>：男主外，女主内,男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不要做家务，否则会被扣上“<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">怕<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>，没面子</span></strong>”的帽子。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">小时候男孩子在家做家务，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的老母亲<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不会让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>做家务，并且还会说：要有远大的志向，以后找了<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>让她做。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">更有甚者，思想还很极端：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">相声演员张云雷之前说过“”：<span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">女性</span>连家务都干<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，我娶你干什么？</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这种观念<span style="color: black;">已然</span>深入骨髓，一时半会儿<span style="color: black;">基本</span>改不了！</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在这种男人的潜意思里<span style="color: black;">便是</span>家务这种小事儿<span style="color: black;">女性</span>应该做好，这种小事儿不足挂齿。男人对家庭的贡献<span style="color: black;">便是</span>在外面辛苦<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>，<span style="color: black;">妻子</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span>为钱发愁，给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>好的教育<span style="color: black;">要求</span>，过优渥的生活，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>男人最应该做的事情。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CMuon8FT9I1WDcFSnYzCok1iaj8Dv7LBSzQjL7mWsMUfcBcY8Js3asPw/640?wx_fmt=png&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">男人不做家务还有一个<span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">因为</span>女性天生的母性，在照顾<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的过程中得心应手，自觉<span style="color: black;">装扮</span>起好妈妈的角色。<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>的进入一种恶性循环之中，男人偶尔参加一点家务，<span style="color: black;">女性</span>一边抱怨自己做家务辛苦，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>嫌弃男人干<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>家务。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">久而久之，男人完全与家务脱离，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span><span style="color: black;">女性</span>在习以为常的做家务。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">02</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">做家务是一种互相成就</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">镜头转到袁弘和张歆艺家，<span style="color: black;">状况</span>显然就变得完全不<span style="color: black;">同样</span>了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">袁弘早上六点多<span style="color: black;">起始</span>起床做早餐，袁弘为了不吵醒张歆艺，自己带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，喂奶。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">张歆艺说脖子疼，袁弘就帮她按摩，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>拿快递，照顾小孩。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">连主持人朱丹都说：你们家怎么都是爸爸在照顾，在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家从来<span style="color: black;">无</span>这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">袁弘愿意这么累吗？<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">累，但甜在心里。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">张歆艺做的<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很好，对袁弘的态度<span style="color: black;">始终</span>是肯定加赞赏，事情做的<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不批评。遇到比较困难的事就积极鼓励。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0C97QNJ6yDcX4Xbs1H1akibbMQ3P5QibowzI4RGQHHLF3x3qR3tWpibTRWQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">节目全员都在<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>张歆艺生活过的很幸福，上辈子拯救了银河系才找到了一个既<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>养家，家务<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一把抓，又阳光帅气的十好老公？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">其实在婚姻中幸福从来不是单向的，幸福<span style="color: black;">必定</span>是双向流动的，从来<span style="color: black;">无</span>人在<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>中会是“趟”赢的。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然袁弘做蘸料的时候出了一点问题，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>张歆艺吃的很开心，还说只要是他做的，都好吃。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">袁弘听了感觉洋洋得意，都要起飞了，更有做饭的动力。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CtRibnTvfT7DPHperRmSmJpib2vftQ3CTw9hFxarzYC8ic1xoxlrmeu0iaQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">至高至远明月，至亲至疏<span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>，<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>是一门学问，世上没<span style="color: black;">有没有</span>缘无故的幸福，张歆艺深知，在<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>中，双向流动的爱才更具生命力。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">她<span style="color: black;">无</span>恃宠而骄，理所当然地享受袁弘的爱，而是在<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>经营，和袁弘<span style="color: black;">一块</span>，为<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>注入活力。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">03</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">会做家务的父亲，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>更有修养</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">节目中袁弘体贴自然的表现，这与袁弘的家庭成长环境息息<span style="color: black;">关联</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在节目中有一期，袁弘和张歆艺回到家里，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>袁弘爸爸就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>剥虾，炖鱼，操作很娴熟，看来<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不少做家务。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的环境下，袁弘自然对家务不陌生<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不排斥。<span style="color: black;">通常</span><span style="color: black;">夫妇</span>双方<span style="color: black;">一起</span>承担家务，对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>会有很好的积极<span style="color: black;">功效</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">美国的调查人员曾对3000个家庭进行调查，<span style="color: black;">科研</span><span style="color: black;">显示</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">在爸爸参与家务劳动的家庭中<span style="color: black;">成长</span>的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，适应能力和协作能力，都比爸爸当个甩手掌柜的家庭中<span style="color: black;">成长</span>的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>要强。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在《中餐厅》表现很好的王俊凯<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是深受<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人的<span style="color: black;">喜欢</span>，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他<span style="color: black;">办事</span>严谨懂事，把一切都处理得井井有条。<span style="color: black;">针对</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>事情得<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>周到，条理清晰。</p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CoGQEAYa2GAp5Kpud1U7qiczm7hibUNGBCtKhdReFrf5jwAwxefYHeu3g/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就连同组合的王源<span style="color: black;">亦</span>曾夸他「太会做家务，结婚后的居家老男人！」</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这<span style="color: black;">背面</span>的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他的家中，爸爸更<span style="color: black;">善于</span>家务，做的饭菜比妈妈还要好吃。在《中餐厅》里面做的<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>菜都是之前和爸爸学习的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">父亲的做法是最好的<span style="color: black;">典范</span>，在爸爸做家务的家庭中，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自然<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会成长为家务能手。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">父亲的言传身教是独特的存在，给了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>勤劳智慧的人生底色。</span></strong></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0Cg8TX1zAHa9r0KowucMgR0LYb0D54fBxcHuxUY6LSMvVsFeFd4WHGSA/640?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0CTwt9JviaOJNr0cWicEh4s1icMjX7KC1FjSrnchbDibcJiariaPxbbjun1mng/640?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_gif/Fb2vJxYwgpLbhxvbcWLgnOye053mHU0Cg8TX1zAHa9r0KowucMgR0LYb0D54fBxcHuxUY6LSMvVsFeFd4WHGSA/640?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然，做家务、扫地、擦桌子、洗碗、带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都是<span style="color: black;">所说</span>的“小事”。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">但<span style="color: black;">便是</span>这纷繁细碎的小事，最伤人筋骨，耗人心神。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在爱情里风花雪月，在<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>中得有浓浓的烟火气。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">谁愿意做家务呢？<span style="color: black;">不外</span>是肩上有责任，心中有爱意。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">真正的好男人，从来不「帮」妻子做家务，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他深知：做家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是自己的责任。</strong></span></p>
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