一岁扔尿布，两岁收玩具，那三四岁的孩儿干吗？（儿童做家务年龄表）
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/eP7zEV1evX8icr6sNUAjgXucPFSDGXRmIbvKCTgMfLMYibp8PhgAnJcmCNOQ7DTV5OuK7l32AGRiczpLqPEPicpvpw/640?tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>，有越来越多的家长<span style="color: black;">认识</span>到<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>参与到家务中来的重要性，说到底，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">包袱</span>家务只是一种教育的手段，目的无非是让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从小学习独立自理、<span style="color: black;">做为</span>家庭的一份子承担力所能及的家事<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>父母的一步，<span style="color: black;">另外</span>，宝贝还能<span style="color: black;">经过</span><span style="color: black;">区别</span>的家务类型总结出属于他自己的劳作经验。<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一石三鸟的好事，<span style="color: black;">大众</span>为啥不大力推广呢？</strong></span>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的好处多多，家长最关心的还是我的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>太小，面对繁杂的家务真不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从何做起，小科提倡<span style="color: black;">根据</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">自己</span>的规律去养育他，做家务当然<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不例外，万事都有其规律性，<span style="color: black;">区别</span>年龄段的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>该做<span style="color: black;">那些</span>家务呢？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">通常</span>而言，一岁半至四岁，正是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>发展自理能力的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>发展的好，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的自主性会<span style="color: black;">加强</span>，且有助于<span style="color: black;">创立</span>自信的人格。</span></strong>曾出过8本畅销书的美国育儿专家伊丽莎白潘特丽，针对<span style="color: black;">区别</span>年龄段<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的特点设计了一份《儿童学做家务事年龄表》。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">《儿童学做家务事年龄表》</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">9-24个月</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">有些</span>简单易行的指示，<span style="color: black;">例如</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>让宝宝自己拿汤匙吃饭，把脏的尿布扔到垃圾箱里等;</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">2-3岁</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>在家长的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>下把垃圾扔进垃圾箱，或当家长请求<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>时帮忙拿取东西，如帮妈妈把衣服挂上衣架;<span style="color: black;">运用</span>马桶，刷牙浇花，<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>睡前整理自己的玩具;</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">3-4岁</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">除了以上技能外，还要喂宠物，到<span style="color: black;">前门</span>口取回地上的报纸，睡前帮妈妈铺床，饭后自己把碗盘放到厨房水池里，并<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>妈妈把叠好的干净衣服放回衣柜，把自己的脏衣服放到装脏衣服的篮子里;</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">4-5岁</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">则要学会准备餐桌，饭后把脏的餐具放回厨房，准备自己<span style="color: black;">次日</span>要穿的衣服;将自己用好的毛巾、牙刷挂好、放整齐（这个时候<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>发挥指令很重要。家长需要下达一个清晰的指令，如把一个任务分拆成一个个<span style="color: black;">过程</span>，从帮家长拿筷子<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，慢慢让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>帮忙摆盘子，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>他才会确切的理解家长的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>。）</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/qCvCVCDLlgZqiciaTaT7WOT4raiblXvsoGHZWLkO2gFeuwVBwqX5WUotJEWZxmF5iapDzhIZvw42RJ1licgichW32l1Q/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">5-6岁</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">自己准备<span style="color: black;">次日</span>去幼儿园要用的书包和要穿的鞋，并且学会收拾房间的技能;</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">7-12岁</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">需要学会做简单的饭，帮忙洗车擦地，清理洗手间，扫树叶，扫雪，会用洗衣机。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">13岁以上</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">换灯泡，换吸尘器里的垃圾袋，清理冰箱、灶台，打理花草等繁杂的家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span>被<span style="color: black;">加入</span><span style="color: black;">名单</span>。</p><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">美国的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>爱劳动，WHY?</span></strong>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">美国<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">每日</span>花在家务上的时间居然有1.2小时，想<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>美国家长是<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>“搞定”<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们的吗?<span style="color: black;">博主</span>为您总结了几条经验，保准惊艳到您!</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">TIP1.</span></strong></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">每周一次贴出<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>要干的家务劳动内容</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">将某一特定任务指定某一<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去干，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自己安排完成的计划，并确定完成任务的期限，而不是随时使唤<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>列出父母应做的事情，<span style="color: black;">不可</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>感到父母<span style="color: black;">仅在</span>吩咐<span style="color: black;">她们</span>做家务。<span style="color: black;">做为</span>父母，应该使<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要做比他多得多的工作。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">TIP2.</span></strong></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">轮流干某些活儿</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">让<span style="color: black;">每一个</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都有机会去做最<span style="color: black;">无</span>兴趣或最容易干的工作。等做完后，<span style="color: black;">检测</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的完成<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，这可<span style="color: black;">促进</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>因自己的劳动而产生一种完成任务的成就感。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">TIP3.</span></strong></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">向做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>道谢</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">叫作</span>赞是适于<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的一种鼓励方式。父母还要经常告诉<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>多么感激。这种真诚的感谢会令<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>更积极地<span style="color: black;">作为</span>做家务的好<span style="color: black;">助手</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/qCvCVCDLlgZqiciaTaT7WOT4raiblXvsoGHadwlPBicz8OliaKfYyOBQVVAWrG3ibVonv1s9qnOVP1NZoh8e74PJfFJA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">宝贝做家务，家长态度很重要！</span></strong>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">另外</span>，为了让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>以做家务为乐，父母在引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习做家务时，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>应留意<span style="color: black;">有些</span>事项，<span style="color: black;">包含</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">1.</strong>各年龄的幼儿动作技巧、认知程度、体力、耐心均不相同，<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>父母对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，应视<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>能力范围，不宜超过，<span style="color: black;">以避免</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>因挫折而产生抗拒和畏惧。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">2.</strong>“多容忍、少责备”，在<span style="color: black;">指点</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的时候，口气要温和，不宜破口大骂，有耐心、有<span style="color: black;">过程</span>地、以游戏的方式和<span style="color: black;">心理</span><span style="color: black;">教诲</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">3.</strong>父母本身对做家务的态度要端正，勿让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从父母的言行、举止察觉出做家务是件令人讨厌的事情。应让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>有正确认识，“家”是属于<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人的，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>屋里的每一件事，<span style="color: black;">大众</span>都有义务去做。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">4.</strong>无论<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做得<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>，别忘了给予他赞美和鼓励，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>，他做的每件“小事”你都看到了，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>年纪小，能力、耐力都有限，自然不如<span style="color: black;">成人</span>做得纯熟。<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>关系，熟能生巧，妈妈<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>你很<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>了。</p><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">温馨提示</span></strong></span>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">最后，提醒家长，<span style="color: black;">针对</span>年幼的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，他的生活<span style="color: black;">便是</span>游戏，游戏<span style="color: black;">便是</span>生活的<span style="color: black;">所有</span>，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>学习做家务是一种学习，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种游戏。家长带着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>享受这个过程，无须太严肃哦~</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">文案</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>于科学育儿，如有侵权请<span style="color: black;">通知</span>删除</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">温馨提示：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你是二胎妈妈</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">或是计划生二胎</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不关注“二胎妈妈”实在太可惜了！</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">关注<span style="color: black;">能够</span>看到：二胎政策、二胎<span style="color: black;">专题</span>、二胎吐槽、二胎备孕、二胎家庭、 <span style="color: black;">二胎交流论坛、</span>生二胎<span style="color: black;">重视</span>事项、高龄产妇等 . . .</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">总之，关于二胎<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>事，<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>全都用！</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">二胎妈妈在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>！</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">长按二维码，识别图中二维码关注</span></p>
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认真阅读了楼主的帖子，非常有益。
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