油腻的中年猥琐男人 VS 乏味的中年俗气女性
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">冯唐</span></span><span style="color: black;">的一篇</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">《<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个油腻的中年猥琐男人》</span></span><span style="color: black;">蹿红之后，王婷婷不甘示弱随后出炉一篇</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">《</span><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个丑陋的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>》</span></span></span><span style="color: black;">，文风相对而生，道出了中年男人和<span style="color: black;">女性</span>的面临的中年<span style="color: black;">危险</span>的内心声音，<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免且来看原文。</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">—中年男人篇<strong style="color: blue;">—</strong></strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">如何避免<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个油腻的中年猥琐男人</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">作者：冯唐</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">更能消几番风雨，最可怜一堆肉躯。曾几何时，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>除了<span style="color: black;">将来</span>一无所有，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>充满好奇，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>有使不完的力气，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不怕失去，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>眼里有光，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>为中华之崛起而读书，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>下身肿胀，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>激素吱吱作响，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>热爱姑娘，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>万物生长。曾几何时，时间似乎在<span style="color: black;">一晚上</span>之间，从“赖着不走“变成“从<span style="color: black;">一直</span>留”。曾几何时，连“曾几何时”这个词都变得如此矫情，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不是在特殊的抒情场合，再<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">欠好</span>意思从词库里调出来<span style="color: black;">运用</span>，连排比这种修辞都变得如此二逼，不仅写诗歌和小说时绝不<span style="color: black;">运用</span>，写杂文时偶有用了<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要斟酌许久。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不可避免的事儿是，<span style="color: black;">一晚上</span>之间，活着活着就老了，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>老<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>中年。在少年时代，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>看书，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>行路，我们<span style="color: black;">办事</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>请教老流氓们，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>避免成一个二逼的少年。近几年，<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>是近两三年，<span style="color: black;">周边</span>的<span style="color: black;">有些</span>中年人被很<span style="color: black;">连续</span>地<span style="color: black;">特别有</span>节奏地拎出来吊打，<span style="color: black;">重点</span>的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>都是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>油腻。这些中年人有些是我的好<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，有些是我认识的人，有些我耳闻了很久。<span style="color: black;">她们</span>有的是公共知识分子，有的是意见领袖，有的是相对成功的生意人。小楼<span style="color: black;">一晚上</span>听春雨，虚窗整日看秋山，男到中年，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>该想想，<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个油腻的中年男。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/zgBnzkUpVRHESandKkxfpLt4aYP5pcDktquX61SU6rep8pB62vwE4sm7zswInx2JPSrwD2b0LvdNvx0kbxicYsQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我请教了一下我<span style="color: black;">周边</span>偶尔或经常被油腻中年男<span style="color: black;">困惑</span>的女性，反观了一下内心，总结如下，供自省：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>，不要<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个胖子。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>从小不是个胖子，就要竭尽全力不要在中年<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个胖子。中年男的油腻感<span style="color: black;">首要</span>来自体重。人到中年，新陈代谢速率下降，和少年时代同样的运动量、<span style="color: black;">一样</span>的热量摄取，体重<span style="color: black;">必定</span><span style="color: black;">增多</span>。管住嘴、迈开腿，人到中年，更重要的还是管住嘴。还要<span style="color: black;">认识</span>到，中年的体重不止是在皮下，更<span style="color: black;">大都是</span>在内脏，想想这么<span style="color: black;">数年</span>来吃的红油火锅和红烧肘子就不难理解了。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>，轻度、适度<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">保准</span>体重减少，<span style="color: black;">意见</span><span style="color: black;">思虑</span><span style="color: black;">周期</span>性轻断食。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>曾经玉树临风，<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>风在树残，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>树再残再败再劈柴，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>要<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>保持树的重量不变。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要像厌恶谎言、专制、谬误、无趣、低俗、庸众<span style="color: black;">同样</span>厌恶<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的肚腩，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要把还能穿进十八岁时候的牛仔裤当成四十岁时候的无上荣耀，朝闻道，夕可死，朝见肚腩，夕可死，一室不扫，何以扫天下，一胖不除，何以除邪魔。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>觉得保持体重太难，就多想想<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">周边</span><span style="color: black;">哪些</span>为了减轻体重义无反顾、万死不辞的伟大女性们。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第二，不要停止学习。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我做实习<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>的时候，听一个心内科副教授和<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>谈人生，他大声说：“三十不学艺，真老爷们儿，四十岁之后不必读书。”在我的少年时代，这是<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次有个男人让我体会到了浓重的中年油腻感。如今，有网络和书，随时随地皆可学习。尽管北上广深房价太贵，无房<span style="color: black;">能够</span>堆书，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>还有Kindle。腹有诗书气自华，人丑人到中年更要多学习。吹牛逼能让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>有瞬间快感，<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>改变<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对<span style="color: black;">有些</span>事情所知甚少的事实，<span style="color: black;">不可</span>代替多读书和多学习。人脑是人体耗能最大的器官，多学习多动脑的另一个好处是<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>减肥。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/yB8hgHXXBvuRulcjSLHkGfuNFpZwiaKuDDJurS3J43hb71iaHoXN2u0GIic4ibfPnf4UATH485lS9n6NO84BUzaKaQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第三，不要呆着不动。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">陷在沙发上看<span style="color: black;">资讯</span>，陷在酒桌上谈世界大历史和中国复兴，陷在床上翻<span style="color: black;">外链</span><span style="color: black;">博客</span>和<span style="color: black;">微X</span><span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>圈，<span style="color: black;">不可</span>让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>远离“三高”，<span style="color: black;">不可</span>让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>真正伟大。四十岁以后，自然规律让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的激素水平下降，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>大剂量运动<span style="color: black;">能够</span>让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>体面地抵抗这一规律。<span style="color: black;">况且</span>，人到中年，能让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的<span style="color: black;">况且</span>合法合规的事儿越来越少，大剂量运动是剩下不多的一个，大剂量运动之后，给你合法合规的多巴胺。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>肉身<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">包袱</span>大剂量运动，说走就走，去散步，去旅行，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>好。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第四，不要追忆从前（哪怕你是老将军）。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>都是尘埃，过去的那点成就其实都谈不上不朽。中年不<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着生命终结，不<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>只能回忆从前。纠集起<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>最好的中学校友、最铁的从前同事、最爱的前女友们，畅谈一壶茶、两瓶酒的从前，再尬聊，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只能证明<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>了无新意。就算到了二零二九年人类<span style="color: black;">不可</span>永生，四五十岁<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>算是生命的尽头。积攒唠叨从前的力气，再创业，再创造，再<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>还能攻城略地、杀伐战取。大到创造一个世界上<span style="color: black;">无</span>的<span style="color: black;">制品</span>和服务，小到写一首直给人心的诗、养一盆菖蒲、做一本书、陪一只猫，做<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>少年时没来得及做的事，耐心做下去。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第五，不要教育晚辈。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>有<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的三观，<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人的三观。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的三观有对的<span style="color: black;">成份</span>，<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人的三观<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有对的<span style="color: black;">成份</span>，世界在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不经意之间<span style="color: black;">始终</span>在变化，<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人对的<span style="color: black;">成份</span>很可能比<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的高。即使<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>坚定地认为<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>是对的，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要牢记孔子的<span style="color: black;">教诲</span>：不困不启。尤其是，不要主动<span style="color: black;">教诲</span><span style="color: black;">青年</span>女性。即使交流中<span style="color: black;">不可</span>说服对方，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不要像我老妈<span style="color: black;">同样</span>祝福其他持<span style="color: black;">区别</span>意见者早死。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第六，不要给别人添麻烦。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">两年前才<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次去日本，给我印象最深的不是<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>美好到伟大的<span style="color: black;">食品</span>，而是日<span style="color: black;">自己</span>骨子里不愿意给人添麻烦的态度。在高铁车厢里，不仅没人不戴耳机看视频，连打<span style="color: black;">tel</span>都是禁止的。人到中年，管好自己，在经济上、情感上、生活上不给<span style="color: black;">周边</span>人添麻烦。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/yB8hgHXXBvuRulcjSLHkGfuNFpZwiaKuD33axStdYhlQoC9MUsXRt45GvHBl3qr5HG1JfBfZm5aXdreQ3BFgdgA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第七，不要停止购物。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不要环顾四周，很冲动地说，断舍离，太多衣服了，车<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有了，冰箱里的吃的吃不完，实在没什么想买的东西了。完全没了欲望，失去对美好事物的贪心，生命<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就<span style="color: black;">无</span>生趣。一个老麦肯锡，八十多岁了还在教麦肯锡<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的项目经理<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>管理自己、管理团队、管理事情。他偷偷告诉我保持<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的诀窍，<span style="color: black;">不可</span>常换<span style="color: black;">青年</span>女友了，<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要常买最新的电子<span style="color: black;">制品</span>，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>最新的电脑、最新的手机、最新版的VR女友。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第八，不要脏兮兮。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">少年时代的脏是不羁，中年时代的脏是真脏。一天洗个澡，一身不油光。一旦谢顶，主动在发型上皈依我佛。其实买个松下的电动剃头推子，脱光了蹲在洗手间，自己给自己剃，两周一次，<span style="color: black;">保持</span><span style="color: black;">一辈子</span>，能省下不少时间和金钱。即使为了抵抗雾霾而留鼻毛，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要经常修剪，不要让鼻毛长出鼻孔太多。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">第九，不要鄙视和年龄无关的人类习惯。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">哪怕全世界都鄙视，我还是<span style="color: black;">保持</span>鼓吹文艺，鼓吹戴手串和带保温杯。所有的世道变坏都是从鄙视文艺<span style="color: black;">起始</span>的，十八子、一百零八子佛珠流转千年，十指连心，触觉<span style="color: black;">触及</span>人类深层幸福，保温杯<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>不泡枸杞、<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>装一九七一年的单桶威士忌，仗着保温杯和贱<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>走天涯。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">由于</span>苦逼而牛逼，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>逗逼而二逼，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>装逼而傻逼。愿<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>远离油腻和猥琐，敬爱女生，过好余生，让世界更美好。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><strong style="color: blue;">—</strong>中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>篇<strong style="color: blue;">—</strong></strong></span></p>
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<h2 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个丑陋的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span></span></h2>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">作者：王婷婷</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>：不要让体重超标</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你是一个胖子，无论你说是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>没时间、没<span style="color: black;">要求</span>、<span style="color: black;">不必</span>等任何理由，其实都是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>你懒，你<span style="color: black;">不足</span>自律，你早就<span style="color: black;">已然</span>从心底里放弃自己了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">你不取悦别人，你<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不想取悦自己，<span style="color: black;">所说</span>的要带<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>要做家务，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不外</span>是你给自己找来的挡箭牌。<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">哪些</span>事比减肥容易多了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不逼迫自己减肥的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，除了<span style="color: black;">刚才</span>生育、吃过激素等<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，还有一个重要<span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span>自我价值感太低。她们更加<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>用劳动和奉献来赢得尊重和价值。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">事实是，<span style="color: black;">肥壮</span><span style="color: black;">常常</span><span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着自暴自弃，无论你的内在曾经多么脱俗，这种低价值感都会打败你。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/zgBnzkUpVRHESandKkxfpLt4aYP5pcDkR2Gn71kjuNofP1ibmTpkbwhNU2gj6etn2Zetwib5kqx70xTaDX8xfvFw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第二，不要停止学习和阅读</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">女性</span>的脸，三十岁之前是爹妈给的，三十岁之后是自己生长的。<span style="color: black;">一直</span>地成长、保持阅读和好奇心的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>会越长越美，越老越优雅。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不学习不阅读的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，保养的再好，都缺乏由内而外散发的气质和韵味。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">再美的外表，在30岁以后，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>内在智慧的支撑，很容易就让人乏味。中年以后，智慧和见识比皮囊性感，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>比外表更吸引人。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有见识有智慧的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，既<span style="color: black;">能够</span>处理好婆婆妈妈的事，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">容易</span>应付中年<span style="color: black;">危险</span>，更不会被<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>搞得焦虑不堪。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这个年纪的人，上有老下有小，理财、事业、育儿、生活，方方面面都是一把手，<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>的内在修养，齐家谈不上，教育又没定见，再和老公处理<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>亲密关系，一地鸡毛的生活里越发焦躁，荷尔蒙不足会令你更加暴躁，内外交困，随时沦落成一个<span style="color: black;">俗气</span>的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，<span style="color: black;">作为</span>亲友唯恐避之不及的恐龙。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第三，不要放弃成长</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我有<span style="color: black;">有些</span>全职妈妈的<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，她们<span style="color: black;">无</span>出去工作，以家庭为主，其他时间就忙着运动、健身、跳舞、画画、学习投资理财和美化家庭、探讨<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，把自己充实起来，活得格外活色生香。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">是不是</span><span style="color: black;">俗气</span>，和家庭主妇or职业<span style="color: black;">女性</span>并<span style="color: black;">无</span>关系，只和你自己的灵魂追求<span style="color: black;">相关</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当初在单位上班，最头疼的<span style="color: black;">便是</span>听到一堆中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>同事在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>八卦莫须有的男女关系，陈谷子烂芝麻的桃色事件，讨论物价，说<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的学习，这三个永恒的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>，我听了好几年都没听到新<span style="color: black;">花招</span>。翻来覆去，颠来倒去，她们把自己说老了，身材说发福了，<span style="color: black;">满脸</span>的黄褐斑说得越来越多。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">哪些</span>不参与她们<span style="color: black;">专题</span>的同事们呢？工作的时候全力以赴，有一点空就冲出去美容健身逛街，约<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>下午茶看电影。她们越来越<span style="color: black;">漂亮</span>，越来越有魅力。而<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>沉醉在小世界里<span style="color: black;">俗气</span>中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>呢？她们泯然众人，数十年如一日，混吃等死<span style="color: black;">罢了</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">无</span>精神生活的人，只能从这些家长里短里找到认同，只能从琐碎的庸常里刷存在感。她们不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>过度节俭、磨洋工混日子，这种锱铢必较消耗的成本是<span style="color: black;">全部</span>人生。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/zgBnzkUpVRHESandKkxfpLt4aYP5pcDk9hqnm1uDLQYHKKmnyIzg9Pp9AhlUSVicwMslAtKJlYEH5oOzyZGFFUw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第四，不要只谈论钱和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有一种中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，除了房子／钱和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，几乎<span style="color: black;">无</span>其他<span style="color: black;">专题</span>，一旦<span style="color: black;">起始</span>聊起这两个<span style="color: black;">专题</span>，滔滔<span style="color: black;">不停</span>，没完没了，不<span style="color: black;">思虑</span><span style="color: black;">周边</span>人的感受，不论场合，不论时间，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>无限聊下去，直到她们<span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span>时间，惊呼一声：“我得走了，该接<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去了。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>不是不<span style="color: black;">能够</span>聊，得分人，分场合，<span style="color: black;">重视</span><span style="color: black;">把握</span>时间，<span style="color: black;">重视</span>你的措辞，关注你的精神内核，那种狂热的倾诉欲望，都是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>在这些中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>的生活中，除了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>其他了吧。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这种<span style="color: black;">专题</span>太<span style="color: black;">拥有</span>节育效果，会让<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人害怕<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>，鄙视年龄。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">只会焦虑，而不会做<span style="color: black;">典范</span>的妈妈才是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>人生的天花板。最失败的父母莫过于让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>看到<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>自己的生活，<span style="color: black;">无</span>自我激励的能力，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>活出精气神。这种放弃自己的父母看似牺牲自己，付出奉献，<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>最坏的<span style="color: black;">典范</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第五，不要催生，催婚，不要热衷做媒</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>最让人讨厌的，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>随时化身卫道士，看到<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人就告诫早点生，看到单身的就想做媒，看到未婚的就催结婚。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她们难道不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>对方不婚、不生、不恋，<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">由于</span>看到<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>把好好的日子过<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>柴米油盐和鸡飞狗跳，把青春岁月愣是自我放纵到发福发胖变丑，这面镜子的威慑力巨大，身边的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人怎么愿意重蹈覆辙？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她们自己活出的样子，让<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人<span style="color: black;">可疑</span>催生和催婚是一场阴谋，是拉人下水<span style="color: black;">一块</span>沉沦的<span style="color: black;">暗淡</span>心理。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_jpg/zgBnzkUpVRHESandKkxfpLt4aYP5pcDkJxlRnia4Sq2zuiawh2LfDoMm0DHl7XTgxACE7THKe6lwOsjeU3RKqvFQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第六，不要骂别的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>妖精，不要骂小三，不要骂婆婆。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">骂别的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>是妖精的，不是在让别人<span style="color: black;">重视</span>到自己的确年老色衰吗？你自己活成妖精<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">骂人家小三，不是在说自己令男人看到就想禁欲吗？你让自己美成随时有机会做小三却稳霸皇后宝座<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">骂老公骂婆婆，<span style="color: black;">意见</span>对着镜子骂，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>看到你的面容有多丑，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>有利于你找到让自己变美，又<span style="color: black;">能够</span>消灭敌人的好办法。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">相由心生，你的脸<span style="color: black;">便是</span>你灵魂的样子，清扫心灵的犄角旮旯，多放一点美好的事物进去。人生<span style="color: black;">不仅</span>有眼前的苟且，还有星辰大海，还有咖啡和茶，更有读不完的书，看不完的风景。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第七，停止抱怨</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">抱怨的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>越来越丑，抱怨的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>释放出来的负能量<span style="color: black;">能够</span>赶跑一切正能量，会让自己越<span style="color: black;">出现</span>活在所有被抱怨的事情<span style="color: black;">其中</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这个世界上，<span style="color: black;">处理</span>麻烦的<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>安静、微笑、行动、接纳、放下、<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>。抱怨，只会加重你要抱怨的那件事。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第八：你要学会扔东西和买东西</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">青年</span>时候交的学费，如今都是买东西的经验值。<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>有简单的几步。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">1，把衣柜里难看的衣服都扔掉。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">2，把<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>穿不上的劣质衣服<span style="color: black;">所有</span>处理掉。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">3，把家里不<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>的杂物，常年堆积的<span style="color: black;">再也不</span>用的杂物统统扔掉，让自己和家都清清爽爽。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">4，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>去买你力所能及范围内最好的<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>品和衣物。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">5，每一天都打扮美美的才出门。让得体和优雅的外在<span style="color: black;">作为</span>你的宗教，你的中年自然会滚得远远的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当你<span style="color: black;">美丽</span>，当你优雅，你自然不会想起<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>令你忍不住想抱怨的一切。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第九，认识新<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，不拒绝和异性交往</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">定时</span>更新<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>圈，<span style="color: black;">定时</span>清理负能量太多的旧<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，<span style="color: black;">增多</span>让你感觉更加<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的，让你觉得美好的新<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>。<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>让自己<span style="color: black;">作为</span>别人不舍得拉黑的人。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">只和有趣的<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>交往，而不在乎对方的年龄和性别。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span>，异性<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>你<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>更好的自己，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>学到<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>。以为异性都是出轨对象，这种给人生设限的思维<span style="color: black;">规律</span>才是错的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第十，忘记年龄，不要给自己设限</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">想去蹦极，<span style="color: black;">首要</span>想想你<span style="color: black;">是不是</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>，不要<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>什么年龄。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">想去独自旅行，不要征求伴侣的同意，只要走得开，愿意去就去。所有想做的事，都别有借口，别省钱，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>去就赶紧去。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">想买的衣服，不要<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>不适合你的年龄，只要你穿得上的衣服。年龄<span style="color: black;">无</span>限制你的衣品，认知才会。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第十一，只管修炼好自己，把伴侣当成普通<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>那样欣赏优点，平等交流</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">人到中年，不得不接受的一个事实<span style="color: black;">便是</span>，伴侣<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是普通人，不是那个骑着白马的王子，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>会发福，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>有直男癌症状，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在职场里打拼的<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很<span style="color: black;">不易</span>，<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>偷懒的时候绝对不会积极主动。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">必须接受<span style="color: black;">她们</span>是一种粗线条动物，<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">拥有</span>所有雄性动物的本能，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>自己不美，却永远<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">漂亮</span>的女性和美好的生活。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就像你不必对普通<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>鞍前马后伺候<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，对伴侣<span style="color: black;">也</span>然，记得你们是分工协作的团队，不需要关起门来只顾阶级斗争不抓生产。你不必像他妈那样照顾他，你得像培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>那样让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>历练。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">记得<span style="color: black;">她们</span>是随时<span style="color: black;">能够</span>解约的伙伴，合纵连横才是双赢，作死和撒泼肯定是两败俱伤。相处之中，既要不客气，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要懂得尊重。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">记得<span style="color: black;">她们</span>是公婆养大的，<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>了<span style="color: black;">能够</span>退货，切莫自己动手修理，平白让自己给人家当了一回娘，还会被嫌弃。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在亲密关系里，你只管修炼自己，只管往前冲，你活成什么样子，是你伴侣的镜子和参照，他<span style="color: black;">或</span>放弃<span style="color: black;">或</span>跟随，得随他<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，他要不要携手<span style="color: black;">一块</span>奔跑，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>得让他自己决定。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一个让自己奔跑着往前冲的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，伴侣只会紧张你会不会换掉他，而不是你自己没出息地严防死守对方不出轨不抛弃你。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="data:image/svg+xml,%3C%3Fxml version=1.0 encoding=UTF-8%3F%3E%3Csvg width=1px height=1px viewBox=0 0 1 1 version=1.1 xmlns=http://www.w3.org/2000/svg xmlns:xlink=http://www.w3.org/1999/xlink%3E%3Ctitle%3E%3C/title%3E%3Cg stroke=none stroke-width=1 fill=none fill-rule=evenodd fill-opacity=0%3E%3Cg transform=translate(-249.000000, -126.000000) fill=%23FFFFFF%3E%3Crect x=249 y=126 width=1 height=1%3E%3C/rect%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/g%3E%3C/svg%3E" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第十二，让自己<span style="color: black;">作为</span>有趣的、可爱的，内心大<span style="color: black;">女性</span>的小<span style="color: black;">女性</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">幽默感是最高级的教养，是你人生智慧、见识、情商智商的<span style="color: black;">表现</span>，让自己<span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个有趣的，懂得欣赏幽默的人，才是<span style="color: black;">能够</span>愉快玩耍的基本。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">做一个内心强大的大<span style="color: black;">女性</span>，有担当、有责任、有能力，却<span style="color: black;">不消</span>高声大嗓门男人婆<span style="color: black;">同样</span>的表现出来。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">最优雅的<span style="color: black;">女性</span>是会嗲<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会撒娇，会卖萌却有原则，只会让人尊重又<span style="color: black;">爱怜</span>，却不会<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>兄道弟。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">女性</span>是造物主的神奇创造，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>用柔美渲染岁月，点亮生命和家庭。精致、优雅、<span style="color: black;">漂亮</span>、自律，有趣，其实一点都不难，只要你愿意相信你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个<span style="color: black;">漂亮</span>的熟龄美女，比当一个<span style="color: black;">俗气</span>的中年<span style="color: black;">女性</span>简单<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">人生的路上埋下了无数的惊喜，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>往前走才<span style="color: black;">能够</span>挖到宝，停滞不前的你，连想象力都会余额不足。</span></p>
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