全是女的！墨尔本的男人都死哪去了？
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">奇了怪</strong></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">虽</strong></span><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">然听起来很荒谬，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>墨尔本正在经历一场 “男人荒”。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">尽管街上到处都是男人，可墨尔本的适龄女性仍难觅伴侣。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">几周前，墨尔本一地举办了一场面向35岁以上异性恋者的约会活动，</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">然则</span>让人大跌眼镜的事，来参加的全是女性，</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">一个男人都<span style="color: black;">无</span>！</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">两性学家Chantelle Otten<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">男性不太愿意参加此类约会活动的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">社会<span style="color: black;">常常</span>对男性有<span style="color: black;">必定</span>的期望，<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>在财务或职业上达到<span style="color: black;">必定</span>水平后，才觉得是 “准备好” 去约会了。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">这会<span style="color: black;">引起</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>在<span style="color: black;">无</span>自信时不愿意参与社交活动。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">再加上对被拒绝的恐惧或过去的<span style="color: black;">消极</span>经历，使得<span style="color: black;">有些</span>男性更<span style="color: black;">小心</span>地参加线下活动。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">相比之下，线上约会的匿名性和低<span style="color: black;">危害</span>特性让人感觉更安全，</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>许这<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">有些</span>男性更倾向于线上约会平台而非参加线下活动的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>...</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://q7.itc.cn/q_70/images03/20240730/39d44ce1b1994bee8415cb726cb17623.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">然而，尽管这个世界承诺 “海里有的是鱼”，许多女性仍<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>男性在约会时不愿意走出舒适区。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">墨尔本<span style="color: black;">女子</span>Georgia Smith<span style="color: black;">便是</span>其中一位。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">她二十多岁，从社会标准来看非常有吸引力，但她<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>约会的经历如同 “噩梦”。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">外面的约会环境简直是一滩浑水，我觉得<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>女性<span style="color: black;">已然</span>厌倦了在约会中付出所有的情感和心力...</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">我总是积极地去认识人，但我在<span style="color: black;">创立</span>关系上投入的精力很少得到<span style="color: black;">报答</span>，这真的很令人<span style="color: black;">懊丧</span>。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">我认为最糟糕的是，男人<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上是想要<span style="color: black;">持有</span>女<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的所有好处，但不想给关系下定义...</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">Smith对墨尔本的约会环境感到绝望，但不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己还能做些什么。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她说：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我觉得我<span style="color: black;">已然</span>尽力了，<span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>许<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>需要<span style="color: black;">全部</span>文化的转变，但我真的<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>男性能够更加用心...</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://q1.itc.cn/q_70/images03/20240730/9c8f2397a4ba492dab34ae08c96b8525.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">Otten<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">鼓励人们走出舒适区可能会很棘手，但最好是从小处着手，<span style="color: black;">循序渐进</span>来。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">加入新的兴趣小组或参加<span style="color: black;">无</span>约会压力的社交活动，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>在类似场合中<span style="color: black;">创立</span><span style="color: black;">自信心</span>而不会感到不知所措，</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">慢慢来，花时间去<span style="color: black;">认识</span>一个人，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>让你更舒适，并且有助于<span style="color: black;">创立</span>充实、持久的关系。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">我鼓励人们寻找成功的例子，<span style="color: black;">遵循</span>并参与他人<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>在尝试新事物时找到有<span style="color: black;">道理</span>的联系...</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>35岁以上的人群，有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>认识潜在伴侣的好<span style="color: black;">办法</span>，Otten<span style="color: black;">意见</span><span style="color: black;">大众</span>勇于走出舒适区。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她说：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">多参与你<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>的活动，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>健身课程、兴趣<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>、聚会、文化活动。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">这些都是结识新<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的好<span style="color: black;">办法</span>，尤其是和<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>参加，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>会带其他<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>来。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">你还<span style="color: black;">能够</span>尝试集体约会或与<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>双人约会，这是扩展社交圈的一种有趣且低压的方式。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">另一方面，<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>因约会而感到疲惫和倦怠的人正在追随一种被<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>为 “男生戒断” 的趋势。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">Otten<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>，这种趋势是关于 “有<span style="color: black;">认识</span>地进行约会戒断，停止任何形式的约会，专注于自己”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><img src="https://q6.itc.cn/q_70/images03/20240730/ec693bd2d8d9445c97acb5511259e8b2.jpeg" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她指出：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这一运动源于社会向着更慢更有意识的约会转变，人们<span style="color: black;">选取</span>专注于自己而不是被约会游戏<span style="color: black;">困惑</span>，</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>看到女性退一步，反思自己在约会中的<span style="color: black;">需要</span>和愿望，并专注于丰富生活的其他部分，</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">如培养与家人和<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的关系，以及将<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>精力投入到事业、<span style="color: black;">兴趣</span>和兴趣上...</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这一趋势与更广泛的社会对心理健康的<span style="color: black;">注重</span>一致，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人<span style="color: black;">起始</span>优先<span style="color: black;">思虑</span>自我关爱和<span style="color: black;">自己</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">Otten</span>的<span style="color: black;">科研</span>还显示：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">超过三分之一的女性<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>伴侣<span style="color: black;">注重</span>自我关爱，44%的澳洲人<span style="color: black;">选取</span>关注约会的质量而非数量。</span></p>
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