教孩儿做家务的心得体会
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Wz0XWiaENjMbqUfolmGomAMGXicwjWicvyUkcQmpgC25z1ibicNKgQ33jOzUiaUfvpvkuegRrCsmIuMuww/0?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKY53eRP6prjKm5KZibPOHpQTeoonL8duZ8fAdBFRHXGaBz4e2ppGcQ8g/0?wx_fmt=gif&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的心得体会</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>上经典班<span style="color: black;">已然</span>有半年多时间了，在邓老师和张老师的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>和辛苦付出下，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">这里</span>过程中有困难、有反复，但<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的是进步，是成长，<span style="color: black;">这里</span><span style="color: black;">做为</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>家长<span style="color: black;">首要</span>对老师<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>深深的感谢。应张老师<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，我将在教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务时的<span style="color: black;">有些</span>粗浅体会做以简单总结，请老师批评指正。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1、</span>身教<span style="color: black;">强过</span>言教，做好<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">典范</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">古人说得好，教育，上所施下所效<span style="color: black;">亦</span>，养子使作善<span style="color: black;">亦</span>。身教重于言教，教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的过程<span style="color: black;">便是</span>家长教育自己成人的过程，当<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>感谢<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>重生的时候，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>才<span style="color: black;">起始</span>走在了教育的路上。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">详细</span>在干家务方面<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，我<span style="color: black;">首要</span>对自己严<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，<span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做到的，自己<span style="color: black;">必定</span>先做到，一个勤劳整洁的妈妈本身<span style="color: black;">便是</span>对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>最好的熏陶。这一点我倒<span style="color: black;">无</span>做出太大<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>，我个人本身在家务卫生方面对自己<span style="color: black;">需求</span>就比较高，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从小到大，到过<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家的人总是说<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家干净得就象<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">同样</span>。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKuZdhO8yWgqGXGqWN0RY3MNamxibuns3KEp1bMTiaCAIwGibL58qWtRkUQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从小就不乱摆乱放东西，用过的东西玩具会<span style="color: black;">即时</span>归到原来位置，自己的房间自己收拾得很整齐。记得有一次几个邻居<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>到<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家玩，<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>把<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家几乎翻了个底朝天，我儿子<span style="color: black;">全部</span>过程中都<span style="color: black;">无</span>玩，其他<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一边翻一边玩一边扔，我儿子<span style="color: black;">始终</span>跟在<span style="color: black;">大众</span>屁股后面收拾整理，<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>走了后，他一边生气嫌<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>礼貌，说自己到别人家做客从不乱翻别人东西，都是经过主人<span style="color: black;">准许</span>后才动，动过<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会给人家归位，一边费了很大劲才将<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家收拾整齐，<span style="color: black;">全部</span>过程中他都是自觉性的、习惯性地承担起了这个责任。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKjr7AV6tFAB9mtwZZayvOZQJfwNuBUYu8YF4eZvuAjpiaUeiatnakdEEg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2、</span>耐心细致，教会<span style="color: black;">详细</span><span style="color: black;">办法</span>。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">邓</span><span style="color: black;">老师在家长课堂上说，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务前<span style="color: black;">必定</span>先要教会<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">详细</span>的<span style="color: black;">办法</span><span style="color: black;">过程</span>，而<span style="color: black;">不可</span>想当然的认为<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都会。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>我在让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">第1</span>次干某件家务前就先给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">仔细</span>地教一下，其实<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>不教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>真的不会，即使<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>成人认为是那样简单。在这个过程中要耐心细致，<span style="color: black;">不可</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一下子学不会就不耐烦，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>学某样家务确实不太容易会，都是反复练习<span style="color: black;">才可</span><span style="color: black;">把握</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>以成人的能力和眼光衡量<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。我儿子其实到<span style="color: black;">此刻</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span>还都干得不太好，但这对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>是正常的，他干多了自然就好了。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKkWv3KLy1RHx9e0RrCibrVaZg9WXXH2MibictuznVxiajGeia3Eicxqv6EWoA/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">3、</span>忍得住，绝不插手。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>干家务刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>都是干<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>的，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>洗袜子，虽然我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>认真教了，但儿子刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>洗得<span style="color: black;">便是</span>不干净。这个过程中<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家长要忍得住，他自己的事情坚决让他自己做，自己不要太勤快，为图自己省事替<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去干。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKMlUibngfP2uJ2ssvh7LcYpibpbtWnlzYwZianquibuarG3riahdpVwn6XCQ/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我儿子干家务我从来不看，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>我看了就会忍不住插手，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>我就不看，在别的房间干别的事，他干什么样<span style="color: black;">便是</span>什么样，干得再差<span style="color: black;">亦</span>比不干好。虽然<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>直到<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>洗袜子<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>我洗得干净，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是隔几天脏得不行了才洗一次，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>有什么关系呢，<span style="color: black;">最少</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>有两三年了我从来没给他洗过袜子，我觉得这<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>进步的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，随着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">成长</span>他自然会洗得越来越干净，到了青春期爱美了有面子了估计洗得比我还干净，比我洗得还勤，我急什么呢？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKusAKYhwnHTRGMzoibhicBHMvN1EQxDmHtA9IN2d1NxFBMHnToKmQTibOw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但在这一点上，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有个度的问题，我曾经就犯过过度了的错误。我曾经<span style="color: black;">保持</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自己的事情自己干，坚决不插手，不帮忙，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>过分了，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>感受到了我的冷漠，感受到了我不爱他，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>曾经有几天<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>变得<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>不听话，任何事都跟我反着干，对着干，那两三天我真是感受到了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>越来越大了，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>对家长反感，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>亲子关系<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">基本</span>就不愿意听家长的话，家长拿<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>任何办法，家长的话再正确<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不愿意听都是<span style="color: black;">白费</span>，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>到了青春期，家长<span style="color: black;">基本</span>无计可施。我<span style="color: black;">起始</span>不明白为什么<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">忽然</span>变<span style="color: black;">成为了</span><span style="color: black;">这般</span>？我<span style="color: black;">这般</span>想着，嘴里<span style="color: black;">亦</span>就<span style="color: black;">这般</span>无<span style="color: black;">认识</span>地问他，结果是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的一句话点醒了我，他说是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>你变了，我才变了，是你让我觉得有点不认识了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKLVDVBEZMCXqH589vvonEkicJiaiamibRsGPwINMiavKC9HB2p2XQRqE4oSw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>很积极地问我能<span style="color: black;">不可</span>变回以前，还问我有<span style="color: black;">无</span>自信回到以前，用我鼓励他的<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>话鼓励我，让我要有自信能变回去，我答应他我要变回去，但我又说我<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>有点年龄大了，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>事情干不了<span style="color: black;">亦</span>干<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>想<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>地干，<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>实在干不了那<span style="color: black;">亦</span>没办法，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>鼓励了我很久，最后说算了算了，你实在干不了就算了，那只能我多费点劲了。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>心里的疙瘩解开了后，当他认为我不是不爱他对他<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>的时候，他说变立即就“变”回去了，又恢复了跟我亲密的关系，一下子又变听话了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKaBvodh8h7LfJA5R3hsuibvuClrQKvJJbhJ4xia0Hpic33oJf3azRU0kSg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>我觉得任何事都有个度的问题，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>放手让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务，这个原则是对的，但方式要讲究，分寸要讲究，在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>提出需要<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>的时候，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>家长还是要<span style="color: black;">即时</span><span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>，<span style="color: black;">针对</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>偶尔的偷赖要<span style="color: black;">包涵</span>，毕竟<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>事情<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>未必能做到，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>有需要<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>的时候，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>有偶尔偷赖的时候，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>有想<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>放松几天的时候，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>需要生活有张有弛，<span style="color: black;">为何</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>工作五天就要<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>两天呢，<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的弦<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">始终</span>绷得太紧<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会断。让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>时时感受到<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的关心和爱，感受到<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的理解，感受到<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的人性，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>得到了家长的理解才会更<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不怕苦不怕累，就怕得不到家长的理解。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>与<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的亲子关系是一切的前提，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>亲子关系好了，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>才有机会去教育引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>越来越大了，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的对待方式<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>再用小时候的<span style="color: black;">办法</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要相应改变，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>向<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>关上了门，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">基本</span>就<span style="color: black;">无</span>机会谈到教育。关系<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>说得再对的话<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都不会听，关系好了，即使<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>说得错的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>会愿意听。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKDzcKmSN4tiaX9DEJHxWfZFLvnu4aSMrdN4ib0EFk6EBtHOtDMulKoA0Q/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">4、</span>少盯缺点，用放大镜找优点鼓励。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>干家务都干<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>即使他干得再差，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">保持</span>找他的进步点，找他的优点鼓励，不指出他的缺点。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就会越干越有劲，越干就自己想办法改正自己的缺点，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他从内心想干好，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>他就自己找自己的缺点改。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">我以前<span style="color: black;">始终</span>犯的一个错误<span style="color: black;">便是</span>看到<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的错误或是哪里没做好就马上指出来让他改正，但效果刚好相反，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的干劲受挫，我越<span style="color: black;">指的是</span>出哪里<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，他哪里就越是改不了，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>说多了他就烦了，亲子关系<span style="color: black;">亦</span>紧张了，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>感到我老是在<span style="color: black;">监测</span>着他，比较反感。后来我就提醒自己，<span style="color: black;">必定</span>少批评多鼓励，眼里多看他的优点，少盯着缺点不放。<span style="color: black;">然则</span><span style="color: black;">不易</span>做到，<span style="color: black;">包含</span>今天早上我又毫不留情地习惯性地指出了他的鞋没放好，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>语气<span style="color: black;">由于</span>早上赶着上班还很凶，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>很不高兴，说“我<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>我做得不对，你<span style="color: black;">为何</span><span style="color: black;">必定</span>要说出来？”<span style="color: black;">而后</span>又说“我被你弄得心情这么<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>你<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不哄哄我？”我只是<span style="color: black;">掌控</span>了自己的<span style="color: black;">心情</span>用手给他把脸上的眼泪草草地抹了一把，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>马上<span style="color: black;">心情</span>好了，跟我一路上说说笑笑。我当时的感觉<span style="color: black;">便是</span>，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>对<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>真的很少，很宽容，很容易满足，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做了<span style="color: black;">那样</span>多错误的事情，但<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从来不盯<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的缺点，反而是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span>对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>太多，太过刻薄。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>，要注意的是<span style="color: black;">褒扬</span>和鼓励的区别，要少<span style="color: black;">褒扬</span>多鼓励。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKDLsRc9LIkibypcnvAvibGNThpBzWsLxXl3T4TUPxhqWqxvzUiaN8qmdGg/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">五,妈妈示弱，把儿子当老公靠。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">邓</span><span style="color: black;">老师讲，<span style="color: black;">女性</span>在老公面前要示弱不软弱，对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">同样</span>。尤其是男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，尤其是越来越大的男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，妈妈<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要给面子，给尊重，给信任，适当示弱，把他当男子汉看待，把他当老公依靠，他的责任感就会起来。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">只要我和儿子单独在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>，我就什么事情都先问问他，家里有什么事情<span style="color: black;">亦</span>都跟他商量商量，问问他的意见，我说爸爸不在，你是咱们家的男子汉，你得给我拿主意，即使<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>其实这些都是成人的事，都不是他有能力<span style="color: black;">处理</span>的事情，即使他的回答在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>成人来看很可笑，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>从不打击笑话他，不指出他答得不对的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，只是挑出里面值得肯定的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>鼓励一下（事实上<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是引导），他就<span style="color: black;">特别有</span>成就感，对家庭和家人<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有责任感，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>他越来越有自己的主见，有自己的想法。他找我帮忙的<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>事我就经常给他说我年龄越来越大了，脑子<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">欠好</span>使了，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>想帮，但我帮不了，早上起床的闹钟耳朵都听不见，只能靠他叫我起床了，作业<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">检测</span>不了，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他学的知识我都不会了等等（不是象以前<span style="color: black;">同样</span>生硬的拒绝和<span style="color: black;">需求</span>），他靠不上我自己就只好想办法了。我儿子<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>经常对他爸爸说妈妈笨得很，胆子<span style="color: black;">亦</span>小得很，知识都没他懂得多，啥都得靠他，我说我是<span style="color: black;">女性</span><span style="color: black;">吗</span>，当然得靠着你们男人了，谁让你<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>象你爸爸<span style="color: black;">同样</span>能干。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKGdo6A1OKDK3P98BeNY040E1vicVcEDzaTL8pjT0lZibxLZLe7P0VCk5Q/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">前两天我的手划破了一点，当时他爸爸在单位值班，他<span style="color: black;">无</span>半点迟疑，立即拿出家中男主人的架势要处理这件事。他<span style="color: black;">首要</span>说要打120，我心里怕他为这点小事真的打了120，但<span style="color: black;">始终</span>忍着没说话，但他拨<span style="color: black;">tel</span>时我心里真的很紧张，没想到他拿起<span style="color: black;">tel</span>却拨得是爸爸手机，说明<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自己心里有数，是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span>平常嘴太快，插手太多，不信任<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>能力。他在<span style="color: black;">tel</span>上向爸爸讲述了我的手伤的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，我的一点小伤被他说得很严重，说指头只连了一半了，并问爸爸他要怎么办。其实<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不是有意夸张，在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">成人</span>认为的小伤和小事，在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>心里<span style="color: black;">便是</span>天大的事，尤其是家里<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>他一个人<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做决断的时候，他就感到责任更重大，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他从头到尾都表情非常严肃紧张。他先按他爸爸的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>用手机给我指头拍了张照片，让我给爸爸发了<span style="color: black;">微X</span>（他还不会发<span style="color: black;">微X</span>），<span style="color: black;">而后</span>再给爸爸打<span style="color: black;">tel</span>，用爸爸<span style="color: black;">tel</span>上教的<span style="color: black;">办法</span>和平常他爸爸给他处理伤口的<span style="color: black;">办法</span>，给我拿来碘伏和酒精，消毒后用创可贴包上，<span style="color: black;">全部</span>过程<span style="color: black;">持续</span>地向爸爸<span style="color: black;">tel</span>请教，动作麻利，语气果断，对我关怀备至，<span style="color: black;">包含</span>消毒时还不忘鼓励我不要怕疼。我心里真的很欣慰，其实靠着儿子的感觉和靠着老公<span style="color: black;">同样</span>好。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRKSbIsWPYvfrj0gibUMo0uBicnmuOicQq4Z4UiaUE0axS9mk5ib2M0sj8S5bw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">6、</span>不在<span style="color: black;">详细</span>事情上和细节上强求，<span style="color: black;">需求</span>。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在做家务上，对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不在<span style="color: black;">详细</span>事情上强求，不<span style="color: black;">太多</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>，不纠缠于细节，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>我以前<span style="color: black;">这般</span>做过，但激起的<span style="color: black;">常常</span>是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的反感，尤其是对越来越大的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">必定</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>管得过细<span style="color: black;">太多</span>。一次不设太高<span style="color: black;">需求</span>，<span style="color: black;">必定</span>是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>一下就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做到的。<img src="http://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz/CDuhUJGLH8Xn5EhhKxibJribCWgCPDVibRK55VtFYxRaVQBDpPg4Ij6kxhb74fhIrRXWqus3Z4Oyy1LvvJQFcUjDw/640?wx_fmt=jpeg&tp=webp&wxfrom=5&wx_lazy=1&wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">说了这么多，我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是仅仅限于理论层面，我<span style="color: black;">日前</span><span style="color: black;">实质</span>上<span style="color: black;">亦</span>做不到，我儿子<span style="color: black;">日前</span>家务方面做得<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">欠好</span>，从<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>到做到还有十万八千里，说的这些<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只是我的一个<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>方向。我说的这些肯定<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>不对的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，但<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>只能是反反复复的学，反反复复的做，做的过程中<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>问题再反思改进，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>再反复去学去做去改去悟，成长永远都是一个反复的循环的螺旋式<span style="color: black;">提升</span>的过程。<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，每一个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都是独一无二的，都是与众<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的生命，有很大的个体差异，从长远上来看<span style="color: black;">无</span>可比性，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>别人的教育<span style="color: black;">办法</span>再好，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不<span style="color: black;">必定</span>适合自己的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，我以上所说的<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是<span style="color: black;">按照</span>我儿子的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，未必就适合别人的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>不要误导别人。<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>家长的教育<span style="color: black;">办法</span>只能<span style="color: black;">按照</span>自己<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">状况</span>自己去摸索、去<span style="color: black;">调节</span>、去反复悟。</span></p>
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