从彭于晏“妈妈”到恶女，她拿捏父权社会软肋，借欲望颠覆旧规则
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">中秋节，没想到的是，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>却<span style="color: black;">始终</span>在告别，<span style="color: black;">或</span>走在告别的路上。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">已然</span>告别的是徐少强。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">昨天得知的<span style="color: black;">信息</span>是，香港演员徐少强因食道癌去世，享年73岁，而随后，其妻子在处理徐少强后事时，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不幸心脏病发，离开了人世。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">让人扼腕。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-axegupay5k/bf3f0e4811f44151a2fa535de4be5366~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=GGSVnWBKJKTY7c8CAsw16%2FschYo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">另一边，一位女演员<span style="color: black;">已然</span>为自己安排了后事。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">台湾女演员林美秀，在<span style="color: black;">媒介</span>采访时承认自己<span style="color: black;">身患</span>后天型血友病，可能时日无多。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">让人意外。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这个名字<span style="color: black;">好似</span>不太耳熟。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但只要<span style="color: black;">说到</span>角色，你马上能恍然大悟：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">哦，原来是她。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她是《命中注定我爱你》中的陈乔恩妈妈，“陈林西施女士儿”；</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《我可能不会爱你》中的林依晨妈妈。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当时年纪还不大的她，<span style="color: black;">已然</span>当上“妈妈专业户”。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/4a5ec97e2541475799ffdd692db952c4~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=p1S4ubKyDGp35UgMY6mZ5QS9OdY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">没错，随着年岁的渐长，<span style="color: black;">哪些</span><span style="color: black;">陪同</span>着<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>成长的经典形象，势必一个接一个地暗淡了星光，给<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的世界留下一个又一个的缺口。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当然会怀念。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">可这些形象<span style="color: black;">到底</span><span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着什么，它<span style="color: black;">为么</span>让<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>念念不忘，恐怕，又是一两句话说不清的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">于是今天，Sir打算来聊一下林美秀。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">仅有</span>一个：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在一个“<span style="color: black;">百姓</span>妈妈”的形象里，藏着<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对平等的<span style="color: black;">巴望</span>，与对现实的无奈。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这无奈由来已久。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>时候，该改变一下了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">01</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">很多人会觉得：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">在林美秀的身上，<span style="color: black;">拜托</span>了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人，求而不得的家庭乌托邦。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这不是一句大话或谬赞。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而是，许多人一看到她的笑容，的确能挥走“东亚家庭”这个词带来的愁云惨雾。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">为何</span>？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这当然与东亚家庭中母亲的形象<span style="color: black;">相关</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">通常</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">国产影视<span style="color: black;">平常</span>的母亲形象，很长一段时间，都有一条既定的<span style="color: black;">榜样</span>好妈妈公式。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">生长于乡村的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">无论是淳朴的家庭<span style="color: black;">保护</span>者，或新晋的宗法社会<span style="color: black;">青年</span>受害者。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当她们<span style="color: black;">持有</span>母亲这一身份的时候，自然就<span style="color: black;">作为</span>了<span style="color: black;">全部</span>家庭的承重柱：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一个吃苦耐劳的<strong style="color: blue;">“地母”</strong>形象。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/19b6b92c13964af0931647d82873e610~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=Q%2BLrS%2F6fnRf3PNRpE9ndxBnXRQE%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">△ 《活着》</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">那时候她们面临的，更<span style="color: black;">大都是</span><span style="color: black;">外边</span><span style="color: black;">存活</span>压力的考验。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而到了都市背景下。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">母亲<span style="color: black;">更加是</span><span style="color: black;">各样</span>新式家庭内部矛盾的润滑剂。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">乃至</span>于，无论一个女性的性缘、<span style="color: black;">外边</span>社会关系<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>，是蛇蝎女、苦情小白花<span style="color: black;">或</span>强势工作狂。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当她的身份为一个母亲时，又会统一成一个百分百付出的“好妈妈”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">似乎动摇了这一点，就动摇了一个家庭运行下去最重要的内核。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">近年来，有尝试动摇“好妈妈”形象的作品。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">要么强调母亲在子女教育中过犹不及的<span style="color: black;">掌控</span>力。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/17bcfa66543d49b79c373ee607c83c44~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=AX89ynRZClZK5p3VmpvlSC0CdBs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">△ 《小<span style="color: black;">高兴</span>》中乔英子的母亲</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">要么基本不负责任、是个需要女儿<span style="color: black;">守护</span>的少女。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/3d7583517fe140bea973c9476301d961~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=rFArAjSOfhQhAiWu%2Bx1MJzvsBGo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">△ 《过春天》</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">似乎，一个女性，只能做一个<span style="color: black;">作为</span>好母亲或好恋人的单选题。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这些对母亲职能的强调，就像戏台上将军的戏鼓点，每一步子，都迈得太响了，反而让人觉得紧绷与不真实。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而林美秀呢？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">她<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>时候不像个妈妈，而是一个难得的不强调“受苦”的，让人感到愉悦的形象。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一个例子。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《听说》。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">片中，彭于晏想要追求他以为是听障的少女陈意涵，犹豫很久之后，问家长：“你们能接受我和一个听不见的人谈<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>吗？”</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/7c4bed27d9834a2a9900407145573523~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=TYVDih2vGyL3gDK0t9LMjGew%2FMY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在刻板家庭戏中会怎么表达？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">雷电音效，哭天抢地，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>为爱私奔？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">还是含泪祝福、默默忍受、说“相信一切都会好的”？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《听说》里<span style="color: black;">无</span>做<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当林美秀饰演的天阔妈<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>这个<span style="color: black;">信息</span>时，她<span style="color: black;">无</span>做太多的<span style="color: black;">心情</span>反应。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而是下<span style="color: black;">认识</span>给家中的烧腊店扶椅子、做家务，走进镜头的盲区。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当你以为她在酝酿什么紧张<span style="color: black;">心情</span>的时候，她的回复，却是关乎<span style="color: black;">行径</span>与给予：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“可<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>两个不会比手语啊。”</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/80c0626c09f044c281d889bdecef9f2d~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=1Xf95RAxhIUz%2FV9gyg7juVhpBlM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当陈意涵<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次来到家中，这两个平时熏着烧腊烟火的家长却换上了一身最<span style="color: black;">美丽</span>体面的衣服，贡献了电影最温馨的一个场景：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">她们</span>拿了一个本子，用大咧咧的黑色字写着：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">你和<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>天阔<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，很<span style="color: black;">阳光</span>，很可爱……</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/03fbfe2dc50140e7b72ffcf78f364be9~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=tJ2Jepj1cEMsvG73TdYuqTtEm7A%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">是。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有观众<span style="color: black;">评估</span>这一段：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>说前面还是爱情片，那<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>简直<span style="color: black;">便是</span>自己绝不敢想的家庭氛围科幻片了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>说，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>怀念的是林美秀那种“异类”的喜剧形象吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对天阔妈的<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>，其实是基于现实生活中，“母亲”被刻板印象化，并套上<span style="color: black;">牢靠</span>的枷锁时的压抑与难忍。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">没错，母爱很伟大。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但时<span style="color: black;">迄今</span>日，<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>人愿意将女性困于传统的“母职”形象中，<span style="color: black;">已然</span>没人再愿意被“伟大”这个词绑架了。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">期盼</span>这世界让“母亲”透上一口气。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">解开枷锁。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">作为</span>一个<span style="color: black;">新鲜</span>的，独立的人。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">02</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">说白了，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>对<span style="color: black;">这般</span>母亲形象的<span style="color: black;">喜欢</span>，是对一种新的“家庭关系”的<span style="color: black;">巴望</span>：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">平等融洽。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">再也不</span>是“我生了你”“我养了你”，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">需求</span>等价或成倍的“偿还”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">儿女小的时候，<span style="color: black;">没法</span>反驳。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但麻烦的<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">她们</span>不反驳，<span style="color: black;">再也不</span>表达，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不愿意交流，最后两代人变成很<span style="color: black;">认识</span>很亲密又很陌生的人……</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而林美秀饰演的母亲，胖胖的，笑得甜甜的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就像童话水晶球最坚实的一道玻璃，无时无刻地不在展示<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>可望而不可及的形象。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就拿两个最出名的角色<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>吧。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《命中注定我爱你》中的陈欣怡妈妈，姜母岛的“陈林西施女士儿”：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>提取出这部剧的梗概，非常容易让人结节增生。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">然则</span>，《命中注定我爱你》却以环境的喜感冲淡了这层苦味。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">承担这一功能的，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>纪存希奶奶和陈欣怡妈妈。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">奶奶天生一副笑脸，<span style="color: black;">无</span>任何贵妇的架子，和陈林西施的闹哄哄形<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>精彩的化学反应。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">于是，任何谈判的立场都变得像玩闹。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">上门讨说法，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能变成忘年闺蜜兜风，还把当事人男主抛在脑后。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/cb23c79294a94aa987dd39f1362c7061~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=JbT%2B687Sg6DdDYPlAaQKMDQIJTs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">陈欣怡能拿妈妈怎么办，毕竟她自在又平等，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>还爱你。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这个剧里，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>时候，姜母岛的“娘家”三口人，都是站成一排，<span style="color: black;">无</span>分出母亲<span style="color: black;">或</span>姐妹的主次。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/8fd302d9c567479d85b8c289175ed156~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=V9P9lBlvtk%2BIPwKrdlTG5x5WaJs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她们仨<span style="color: black;">亦</span>各有各的毛病，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>当陈欣怡受了委屈，她们<span style="color: black;">亦</span>行动一致地冲上去<span style="color: black;">守护</span>。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/79464b57daee41d18171694ea3cf449b~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=n5oDSW21BhrwYBns37B%2BhW1Rfb0%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而陈林西施的诙谐，在于她<span style="color: black;">针对</span>“母亲”这个身份的抽离，有种刻意<span style="color: black;">装扮</span>的喜剧效果。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她们家每次家庭开大会，看上去呢，有书记员、有提议者，但<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上，还是在为女主<span style="color: black;">供给</span><span style="color: black;">心情</span>与发泄，骂骂纪存希。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这儿</span>的妈妈并不像家长，而像是一群闺蜜在做一个名为“家庭”的小组作业。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这种<span style="color: black;">无</span>架子的平等，是女主最坚实的退路。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这种对小家庭地位的打破，是撬动<span style="color: black;">全部</span>剧的阶级壁垒的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>铲土。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而《我可能不会爱你》中的程又青妈妈，完成的又是一个更难的题目：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>女儿<span style="color: black;">作为</span>她自己。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">《我可能不会爱你》中的程又青。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有人<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>她<span style="color: black;">持有</span>的工作能力、独立<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有人<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>她有李大仁这么一个体贴的男闺蜜。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但Sir觉得，她最让人<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>的，是决心退婚的前夜，对父母流着泪说出的那句话：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">“我<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>你们爱我，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>我不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>你们这么爱。”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">程又青妈妈对女儿，有一种从不情感绑架的尊重。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">女儿问妈妈：“你生我的时候痛了多久？”</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">可能很少有母亲能这么轻描淡写：“<span style="color: black;">便是</span>扑通一下就生出来了啊。”</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/3f36261c8daa49abb20162f78aabe6f8~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=f3i3EbJK0dLVQp1ZRM2XBi%2FpuHs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">更别提，她说了这么一句：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">“我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要谢谢你，我<span style="color: black;">无</span>问你的意见就把你生出来了。”</strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/45815e8ef7db49a49869061cf0a68625~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=J8LGPdjr5%2B9lTatwp0hG50P7h6A%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">女儿不是妈妈的副<span style="color: black;">制品</span>、不是为了什么家族身份而活。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而是，自打你有了生命<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，<strong style="color: blue;">“你的意见”就很重要</strong>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">发掘</span>了吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">所说</span>“家庭乌托邦”的本质是一个人把自己当作一个“人”看，<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>把对方当作一个平等的“人”看。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这其中<span style="color: black;">不应</span>存在什么权力关系。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">乃至</span>于更进一步。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">与其说<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>是在<span style="color: black;">巴望</span>一种平等的家庭关系，不如说，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>是在渴求“家”这个词，回归它本来的含义。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>“偶然”地生活在了<span style="color: black;">一块</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而家，则是<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>抱团取暖、舔舐伤口，并试图重新出发的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>正是如此。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在程又青最无助决定退婚的<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>，她叫醒父母，妈妈的眼睛一刻<span style="color: black;">无</span>离开女儿。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她依旧不是质问、审判，而是真切地在乎她，在乎她的<span style="color: black;">心情</span>状态，在乎她哭湿的半边衣服。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一边想办法的<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，更显出后面那句话的重量：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的脸不重要</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">你的幸福比较重要</span></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/b77f686cd7904062862a0b4ebd834016~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=P09vyt7bAbTdNX6uRBUMnpbaOwk%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不需要<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>夸张的撕裂与对抗。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">已足够<span style="color: black;">安抚</span>人心。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">03</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当然，<span style="color: black;">做为</span>演员<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，<span style="color: black;">选取</span>角色的空间其实<span style="color: black;">特别有</span>限。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>时候，不是林美秀<span style="color: black;">选取</span>了这些角色，而是这些角色<span style="color: black;">选取</span>了她。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>你对她足够<span style="color: black;">认识</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>会<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>，她的角色，与现实生活，有着<span style="color: black;">极重</span>的契合。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>说，这次<span style="color: black;">生病</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">通常</span>人得了绝症，会做些什么？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">或</span>避而不出。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">或</span>自怨自艾。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而她呢？在医院的病床上，她对自己的老公说，你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>再娶。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但<span style="color: black;">不可</span>用自己的包包。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">以及<span style="color: black;">不可</span>动用自己的遗产。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/514551d7040948ca8a355b60ce1dc905~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=UeG7ohx0PCuI%2B%2FupgXHye%2FM%2FXYM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">你看，即便是面临死亡，却依然以一种近乎玩笑的<span style="color: black;">心理</span>来看这件事。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">可她<span style="color: black;">始终</span>是这种“好人”的人设吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span>不是。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就在去年，她还演了一个恶女的角色，《恶女》中的何秀兰：</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">原型<span style="color: black;">名人</span>是曾经轰动一时的日本“黑寡妇”木岛佳苗。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她交往过三十个男友，为财杀了三个前男友，被判死刑后还是受到不少女性的追捧。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">片中有一个细节：笑。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">区别</span>的是。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">前面<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>自在的母亲，总是眼睛先动，继而大笑。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而何秀兰不<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，嘴巴反射式上扬，眼睛却<span style="color: black;">波涛</span>不惊。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/b37bd5b44d6642358c69be86de850f30~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=GIYSzdJPfxN6CXkNr8PCJMhMqAg%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她在<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>的笑总是以固定的弧度展示，优雅、<span style="color: black;">详细</span>，却虚假，这是她面对外界所有人的一种<span style="color: black;">装扮</span>，笑意不及眼底。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">是一个“假人”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">但只是如此吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">你仔细看。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">虽然她在电影中并<span style="color: black;">无</span>一段确定的<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>、<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>和另一位女主黄立美之间，有<span style="color: black;">显著</span>近乎于“母女”的对抗与承袭。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她教了她什么？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一是拿捏被父权社会<span style="color: black;">忽略</span>的“情感的软弱”，转而<span style="color: black;">提高</span>自己在这个世界的地位。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">二是<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>自己的欲望，用自己最<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>手的武器<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，颠覆<span style="color: black;">全部</span>旧规则的结构。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">于是。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">你<span style="color: black;">能够</span>看到她像<span style="color: black;">摆设</span>自己的珠宝<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，强迫症式地安排、<span style="color: black;">掌控</span>自己的猎物：<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>渴求家庭的老男人。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/cbe6c461c015438b94c09f8c36a6d0e3~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=wOoP%2BSNYzile%2F%2FplGtmDSk4jeAY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>看到在这个“坏母亲”的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>下，黄立美的黑化，她<span style="color: black;">起始</span>直面自己的欲望，穿上了何秀兰给自己的“战袍”。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/cc469dcf1be94222a34a9fe4fdacf6ff~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=f4YylUKRXiOnPMBxdSbHWg%2BOv0o%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/345cdadba2ed4c6385c4053608e0c895~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=uBKTKCw6emUYfJkw9vtS0%2FI%2FaWU%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>说，《恶女》中蛇蝎的危险 ，扩宽了对社会规则反叛者的想象。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的反叛。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">和之前林美秀<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>“<span style="color: black;">满脸</span>福气”的角色<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，本质上，都是对传统家庭与社会观念遮羞布的撕破。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">只<span style="color: black;">不外</span>对抗的方式<span style="color: black;">区别</span><span style="color: black;">罢了</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">说到<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>，Sir想起了林美秀那首<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>红的歌，《金罵沒ㄤ》。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-6w9my0ksvp/11414ef22cac4bbe8cb9c4b30571e427~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727354922&x-signature=mzryuPTdP2dyI43gB1idXN07iPs%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">歌名是一句闽南俚语，意思是“没了老公”。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而画面里展示的，则是在市场里最普通的买菜大妈，她们的<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>舞蹈都是一个买菜的动作。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">怎么说呢。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">用一个词形容，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>：举重若轻。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她<span style="color: black;">能够</span>把严肃的<span style="color: black;">专题</span>戏谑化，<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>把沉重的<span style="color: black;">专题</span><span style="color: black;">容易</span>化，以呈现出一种让人<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>的松弛感。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">并强调着自我与情感的力量。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她所提醒<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的是，在过于坚实的东亚家庭里，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的角色即便只是透出来的一点光，但依然存在。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她不是什么徒增笑料的异类。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不应</span>是只能在角落里绽放的极<span style="color: black;">少许</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">而这，才是她留下了的这些母亲形象，最大的<span style="color: black;">道理</span>。</span></p>
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