蔡礼旭老师:当孩儿懂得分担家务,他才可体会到办事的辛劳,惜劳才会晓得感恩!
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从小都是很活泼的,<span style="color: black;">为何</span>愈<span style="color: black;">成长</span>会愈懒惰?<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>家长都跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说:“你只要把书念好就行,其他的事都<span style="color: black;">不消</span>管。”这句话教出来的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>会不会很勤劳?不会!</strong><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>太太都抱怨先生懒惰,不帮忙做家务,“我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是工作一整天,<span style="color: black;">为何</span>家里的活都是我做?”<span style="color: black;">然则</span>她却把自己的痛苦又建筑在往后<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的身上,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>她教自己的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是这样说:“你什么事都<span style="color: black;">不消</span>管,把书念好就行。”结果她的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>以后<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会很懒惰,又会让<span style="color: black;">另一</span>一个<span style="color: black;">女性</span>痛苦。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">实质</span>上小孩最强的能力是模仿。</strong>我的小外甥两岁多的时候,有一次他母亲在那里擦桌子,刚好擦到一半<span style="color: black;">由于</span>其他事走开了,<span style="color: black;">此时</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>走过来拿起抹布就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>擦桌子。<strong style="color: blue;">父母很勤劳,<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>就会模仿父母的动作,<span style="color: black;">然则</span>勤劳的父母不<span style="color: black;">必定</span>能教出勤劳的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>,还要教对<span style="color: black;">办法</span>才行。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">其实我的小外甥还不会擦桌子,他只是玩耍,要模仿妈妈<span style="color: black;">罢了</span>。我姐姐走回来,就对他说:“小伟,这么小就懂得帮妈妈的忙,懂得帮妈妈擦桌子,真有孝心,真是个好<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。”这句话讲完,<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>抬头挺胸,擦得更起劲。我姐姐接着又跟<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>说:“小伟,你下一次擦桌子<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要记住,四边的角<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要擦到,假如你连四边的角都擦干净,那你擦桌子就非常完美,100分!”<strong style="color: blue;">这个<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>记住了什么?记住了<span style="color: black;">办事</span>的<span style="color: black;">办法</span>,记住了做人要有孝心,<span style="color: black;">因此</span>他<span style="color: black;">同期</span>学孝又学<span style="color: black;">办事</span>。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在汉朝初年,刘邦给100多位打天下的开国功臣分封了属地,给<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>田宅。过了百年之后,汉朝的史学家们<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>想去<span style="color: black;">认识</span>一下这100多位功臣的后代,经过百年后是什么样的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>。<strong style="color: blue;">结果令史学家非常惊讶,<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的后代基本上都没落了,<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>流落街头乞讨,<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>几个人的后代还很好。其中萧何的后代很不错,<span style="color: black;">原由</span>是当初在分封土地的时候,萧何深谋远虑,他只要了<span style="color: black;">一起</span>贫瘠的土地。<span style="color: black;">因为</span>贫瘠,不勤劳耕作就没饭吃,<span style="color: black;">因此</span>他的子孙懂得勤劳节俭。</strong>其他的人分封到很好的土地,就变得好吃懒做,<span style="color: black;">况且</span>好土地你喜欢,别人<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>,如此就引来<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人觊觎,被<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人设计陷害。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>,萧何看得远,不留钱给子孙,重要的是把智慧传给子孙。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">中国圣贤<span style="color: black;">已然</span>整理出来,人有四个习性叫做“骄、奢、 淫、逸”。“逸”<span style="color: black;">便是</span>游手好闲。<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>家训,都非常注重养成<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>勤劳的态度。<strong style="color: blue;">《朱子治家格言》<span style="color: black;">第1</span>句话<span style="color: black;">说到</span>:“黎明即起,洒扫庭除,要内外整洁;既昏便息,关锁门户,必亲自检点。”</strong><span style="color: black;">因此</span>以前家里的<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>工作都是<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做,<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从小爱劳动,<span style="color: black;">成长</span>才不会好逸恶劳。<strong style="color: blue;">当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>懂得分担家务,他<span style="color: black;">才可</span>体会到<span style="color: black;">办事</span>的辛劳,惜劳才会<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>感恩。<span style="color: black;">此刻</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的感恩心很难生起来,<span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">安在</span>?<span style="color: black;">由于</span>他是茶来伸手,饭来张口。</strong>有个小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>听完之后,就对<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>说:“老师,茶来不伸手,饭来不张口,<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>吃?”真是不知民间疾苦。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">我在澳洲学习时,学院安排<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>轮流洗碗,<span style="color: black;">便是</span>把六七十个人用餐后的餐具洗净。我这<span style="color: black;">一生</span>还<span style="color: black;">无</span>真正洗过碗,在那里洗碗的时候,<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">忽然</span>体会到人生的哲学,<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">一生</span>该是自己做的逃都逃不掉。既然如此,就要趁<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的时候多劳动、多付出,老年福报现前<span style="color: black;">才可</span>享福;假如<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的时候不勤劳,常常挥霍,老年<span style="color: black;">必定</span>会很<span style="color: black;">悲惨</span>,</strong><span style="color: black;">因此</span>我洗碗<span style="color: black;">亦</span>洗得很<span style="color: black;">高兴</span>。有一天卢叔叔到厨房来,本来要走过去,<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>停下来对我说:“看你洗碗就<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>你的命太好了。”我一个洗碗的动作,他就把我的底细看穿了,<span style="color: black;">由于</span>我笨手笨脚的。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">因此</span>,当你的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>对人恭谦,<span style="color: black;">办事</span>又很勤奋,你不要担心往后<span style="color: black;">无</span>人提拔他。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有个幼儿园安排小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>们轮流洗碗,有一个小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>在家里从来不帮忙洗碗,<span style="color: black;">因此</span>他不想洗。<span style="color: black;">此时</span>老师按兵不动。后来吃饭的时间到了,菜都煮好了,可是他碗<span style="color: black;">无</span>洗,<span style="color: black;">无</span>碗碟装饭菜。老师坐着不出声,等着他去洗碗。这个小<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span><span style="color: black;">瞧瞧</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>办法,就赶快去把碗洗干净。接着老师跟他说:“<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>是过群体生活,<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>人都有本分事,你不洗碗就<span style="color: black;">无</span>碗用;老师不煮饭,你<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>饭吃。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>,应该尽心尽力把自 己该做的事做好,<span style="color: black;">这般</span>才是好学生。”<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>从小要让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>多<span style="color: black;">办事</span>,这些生活能力就会<span style="color: black;">持续</span><span style="color: black;">提高</span>。其实,当一个人生活不求人,他就会生活得很自在、很<span style="color: black;">容易</span>。假如一点小事都办不了,还要找人帮忙,还要花钱,那就会常常生活在<span style="color: black;">懊恼</span>之中。</strong></p>
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