原创 专家发掘：爱做家务比不爱做家务的孩儿，成绩优秀的比例高27倍
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">哈佛大学一项长达20年的<span style="color: black;">科研</span><span style="color: black;">显示</span>，爱做家务的和不爱做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，成年之后的就业率15:1，犯罪率为1:10。爱做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，离婚率低，心理<span style="color: black;">疾患</span>患病率<span style="color: black;">亦</span>低。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不外</span>，在现实生活中，有的家长认为，做家务是<span style="color: black;">成人</span>的事情，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的<span style="color: black;">重点</span>任务<span style="color: black;">便是</span>好好学习。可是，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不做家务，把时间都用在学习上，成绩就会优秀吗？不<span style="color: black;">必定</span>。中国教育科学<span style="color: black;">科研</span>院曾对全国2万个小学生家庭进行过调查，结果<span style="color: black;">显示</span>，</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">正如心理学家<span style="color: black;">科研</span><span style="color: black;">发掘</span>：人在体力劳动和体育<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>时，大脑里氧气最充分；大脑在劳动和运动时，思维部分是<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>的。如此劳逸结合，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>会更聪明。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">那<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>又该<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">容易</span>的，持久地养成做家务这个好习惯呢？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">1.放手让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span>一份所有他能够做的家务的<span style="color: black;">名单</span>，让他/她自己<span style="color: black;">选取</span>其中的一两项工作，这会让他/她感到，自己<span style="color: black;">持有</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>和<span style="color: black;">掌控</span>的权力。在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>尝试着做家务的过程中，他并<span style="color: black;">不可</span>做好，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>常常会越帮越忙，<span style="color: black;">此时</span>候，家长千万不要指责<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">或</span>急着去<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，其实<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要做的是耐心的<span style="color: black;">教诲</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">2.父母做好<span style="color: black;">典范</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">平时家长<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>总是在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>面前，抱怨家务劳动很脏很累，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>肯定<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不愿意参与。多传递积极的<span style="color: black;">心情</span>，潜移默化中就会影响<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。尤其是家庭中的爸爸，有些爸爸工作忙不太干活儿，会给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>带来<span style="color: black;">消极</span>的影响。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">3.<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>地奖励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，就让他做点家务，适时放手，他将会飞得更高、走得更远！<a style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">返回<span style="color: black;">外链论坛： http://www.fok120.com</span>，查看<span style="color: black;">更加多</span></span></a></p>
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