老人得了癌症但坚决不治疗，家属应该怎么办？
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"> 常有读者私信问我这个问题 ：老人得了癌症，坚决不治疗，这是<span style="color: black;">为何</span>？应该怎么办？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">确实，这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>并不少见，临床上<span style="color: black;">亦</span>时有见到，在确诊癌症之后，有些<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>都不是晚期癌症的老年<span style="color: black;">病人</span>，就坚决放弃治疗，准备回家听天由命。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">按照</span>我的观察和<span style="color: black;">认识</span>，老年<span style="color: black;">病人</span>拒绝治疗<span style="color: black;">重点</span>有以下两方面<span style="color: black;">原由</span>：</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">1.害怕癌症治疗的副<span style="color: black;">功效</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">癌症的手术、化疗、放疗、消融、免疫和靶向等，都是以杀伤肿瘤为目的，不可避免地会对人体<span style="color: black;">导致</span><span style="color: black;">损害</span>，带来<span style="color: black;">各样</span>不适<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>有小的概率直接<span style="color: black;">引起</span>死亡。<span style="color: black;">另外</span>，临床上确实存在着<span style="color: black;">各样</span>抗肿瘤治疗<span style="color: black;">办法</span>的不恰当<span style="color: black;">运用</span>，<span style="color: black;">病人</span>经常会获益小<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>不获益，并且带来<span style="color: black;">各样</span>副<span style="color: black;">功效</span>，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>治疗后体力的状态严重下降。<span style="color: black;">因此</span>，经常会有人规劝癌症<span style="color: black;">病人</span>别去医院治疗，举的例子<span style="color: black;">便是</span>有些<span style="color: black;">病人</span>一去医院就<span style="color: black;">状况</span>越来越差，吃不下饭，回家没几天就死了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>老年人就会受这些传闻的影响，害怕治疗带来的<span style="color: black;">各样</span>副<span style="color: black;">功效</span>。但<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上<span style="color: black;">以上</span>的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>只是小概率事件，大<span style="color: black;">都数</span><span style="color: black;">状况</span>下，抗肿瘤治疗能够带来益处，有的晚期<span style="color: black;">病人</span><span style="color: black;">乃至</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>存活5年以上，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不接受正规治疗，是很难实现的。<span style="color: black;">日前</span>，癌症治疗的副<span style="color: black;">功效</span>，在一部分人群被严重夸大了，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>是以讹传讹。<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上，<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">状况</span>下病情加重<span style="color: black;">并不</span>是癌症治疗<span style="color: black;">引起</span>的，而是肿瘤<span style="color: black;">发展</span><span style="color: black;">导致</span>的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这种例子并不少见。打个比方，一位晚期胃癌合并巨大溃疡的<span style="color: black;">病人</span>，化疗后<span style="color: black;">忽然</span><span style="color: black;">显现</span>消化道大<span style="color: black;">流血</span>，经过<span style="color: black;">救治</span><span style="color: black;">没</span>效<span style="color: black;">引起</span>死亡。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>这件事，很可能直接判断：这肯定是化疗副反应太大扛不住，<span style="color: black;">引起</span>的死亡。但<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上，这<span style="color: black;">重点</span>是胃癌本身<span style="color: black;">引起</span>的大<span style="color: black;">流血</span>，而不是化疗。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">2.害怕人财两空，给家人带来沉重的经济<span style="color: black;">包袱</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是很<span style="color: black;">要紧</span>的一个<span style="color: black;">原因</span>。太多人的观念<span style="color: black;">便是</span>癌症治疗非常昂贵，动辄十万到数十万起步，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>达到数百万，这是普通家庭难以承受的花费，且常<span style="color: black;">显现</span>人财两空的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>。有些老人害怕去医院，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>担心昂贵的治疗花费给家人带来沉重的经济<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>和麻烦，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>害怕花了所有钱却仍然治<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>病，家人接下来的生活会<span style="color: black;">反常</span>艰难。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">讲到这，我<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>想起很久以前<span style="color: black;">出现</span>的一件真实事件，这是一件人间惨剧，我原以为自己完全忘记了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">故事很简单：一位老人<span style="color: black;">病患</span>了晚期癌症，不想治疗，儿女很孝顺，<span style="color: black;">必定</span>要治，准备卖房卖地，于是老人和家庭<span style="color: black;">显现</span>了严重的矛盾冲突。最后，老人为了不拖累家里，竟然偷偷的跳楼<span style="color: black;">自s</span>了，儿女伤心欲绝。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">当时听到这个<span style="color: black;">信息</span>的时候，我黯然神伤了很久，那时我从没想过、<span style="color: black;">亦</span>从没遇见过<span style="color: black;">病人</span><span style="color: black;">自s</span>，并且还是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>担心治疗花费的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，假如我能未卜先知，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许能说些话让他打消这个念头，但这世界<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">懊悔</span>药。当一位<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>真正的亲历了这件事：贫穷的病人<span style="color: black;">由于</span>患病带来经济<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>，不愿拖累家属而<span style="color: black;">自s</span>时，带来的震撼<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许超出了各位读者的想象，让我<span style="color: black;">一直</span>反思。之后我<span style="color: black;">始终</span>想忘记这件事，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>我<span style="color: black;">没</span>法想象<span style="color: black;">自s</span>前老人和家人的心情，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>贫穷而经历了什么样的痛苦，愿人间再<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>类似的悲剧<span style="color: black;">出现</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">实质</span>上，肿瘤治疗的花费并非<span style="color: black;">大众</span>想象地<span style="color: black;">那样</span>夸张，这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是我科普标准治疗的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，我之前写过关于<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免人财两空和肿瘤治疗花费的<span style="color: black;">文案</span>，有<span style="color: black;">必须</span>的读者<span style="color: black;">能够</span>仔细阅读（#<a style="color: black;">晚期癌症<span style="color: black;">病人</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>避免人财两空</a>；#<a style="color: black;">晚期肿瘤<span style="color: black;">病人</span>到底要花多少钱</a>？），我<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>绝大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>肿瘤<span style="color: black;">病人</span>家庭<span style="color: black;">能够</span>避免<span style="color: black;">显现</span>这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">综上所述，害怕副反应和给家庭<span style="color: black;">导致</span>沉重的经济<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>是最<span style="color: black;">平常</span>的<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，<span style="color: black;">引起</span>不少老人畏惧和厌恶住院，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>经常觉得自己不怕死亡，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>觉得早死没什么，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>不愿意承受痛苦和给家人带来<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上，肿瘤的治疗<span style="color: black;">方法</span>有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>种，<span style="color: black;">一般</span>都有副<span style="color: black;">功效</span>小，且价格<span style="color: black;">恰当</span>的治疗<span style="color: black;">方法</span>，<span style="color: black;">各样</span>靶向和免疫治疗的花费<span style="color: black;">亦</span>其实比以往低的多。并且，国家正在<span style="color: black;">持续</span>的降低药价减轻民众<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>。只要找到负责任的<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>，<span style="color: black;">一般</span>都<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做到。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>，当家人<span style="color: black;">一直</span>地劝说患病老人去医院接受治疗，而老人固执地拒绝，家人心焦如焚但<span style="color: black;">没</span>计可施，该怎么办？</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>虽然很难，我<span style="color: black;">这儿</span>给<span style="color: black;">大众</span>提两个<span style="color: black;">意见</span>，<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>家属<span style="color: black;">能够</span>针对老人的心病进行沟通，但愿能说服<span style="color: black;">她们</span>去医院进行治疗，争取最佳的治疗机会。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">1.晓之以理，动之以情</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">不要互相争吵，好好与老人进行讨论和分析。反复<span style="color: black;">知道</span>表达家人们都很<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>老人能够<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>争取<span style="color: black;">长时间</span><span style="color: black;">存活</span>和治愈的机会，想互相<span style="color: black;">陪同</span>，不想过早失去老人，</p>
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