90后精英海归美女在北京豪宅当住家保母，月薪15000，被质疑上位
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的传统固有印象中，<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">通常</span>都是40岁以上的阿姨，有着一手好厨艺，能带娃能收拾家务。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">但随着社会的发展以及人们固有观念的变化，<span style="color: black;">保母</span>这个行业的从业者<span style="color: black;">亦</span>越来越<span style="color: black;">青年</span>化，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>高学历化。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">90后海归美女尼莫<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">青年</span>、高学历<span style="color: black;">保母</span>从业者的<span style="color: black;">表率</span>之一</span></strong>，刚满30岁的她，却<span style="color: black;">已然</span>从事这个行业5年了，刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>当<span style="color: black;">保母</span>时，尼莫身边会有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>质疑的声音，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">就连尼莫的母亲<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不睬</span>解自己女儿的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">坚强<span style="color: black;">阳光</span>的尼莫并<span style="color: black;">无</span>被这些<span style="color: black;">消极</span>的声音打倒，她以<span style="color: black;">阳光</span>的<span style="color: black;">心理</span>把自己的从业<span style="color: black;">平常</span>发布到短视频平台上，让<span style="color: black;">公众</span><span style="color: black;">认识</span>到她的工作。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">她用自己的<span style="color: black;">实质</span>行动向世人证明，职业<span style="color: black;">无</span>高低贵贱，只要自己开心<span style="color: black;">便是</span>好工作。</strong></p>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">90后住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的一天</h1>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">凌晨5点半，在大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>人还沉浸在梦乡的时候，尼莫就要准备起床，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">开启她忙碌的一天</span></strong>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">给雇主家<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做完早餐后，尼莫就利用等<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>起床下楼的功夫，草草吃两口给自己准备好的早餐，一杯酸奶外加一小碗清水挂面。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">等<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>下楼后，尼莫需要给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>梳头，照顾她吃早餐，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>跟着雇主家的司机<span style="color: black;">一块</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>送到幼儿园。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">送完<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>之后，尼莫先是给雇主家的两只猫咪喂食，接着<span style="color: black;">起始</span>打扫客厅卫生，收拾完卫生之后就<span style="color: black;">起始</span>洗衣服，洗完衣服，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>闲着，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">她<span style="color: black;">起始</span>打扫<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的卧室。</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">快到<span style="color: black;">晌午</span>，尼莫<span style="color: black;">最终</span>有时间<span style="color: black;">能够</span>做自己的午饭了，吃完午饭后<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>一会儿，等到下午两点时，就得去幼儿园接<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，有的时候幼儿园下午没课，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫就会<span style="color: black;">根据</span>雇主的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>送<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去上击剑课和美术课。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在送<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去兴趣班之前，尼莫会在家中对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>进行<span style="color: black;">有些</span>简单知识的辅导，例如教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>读拼音学汉字，训练<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>读<span style="color: black;">有些</span>简单的英文绘本，最后<span style="color: black;">便是</span>辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>练习钢琴。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫大学时主修声乐，最<span style="color: black;">善于</span>的乐器是钢琴和小提琴，辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>练习钢琴这种事情，简直是轻而易举。</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">下午四点，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>上击剑课，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在上击剑课时，尼莫<span style="color: black;">一般</span>会陪在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>身边。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">上完击剑课，尼莫又赶紧带着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>来到美术课教室，在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>上课的时间，尼莫<span style="color: black;">通常</span>会外出购买<span style="color: black;">次日</span>做早餐要用到的食材，<span style="color: black;">或</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>买<span style="color: black;">有些</span>零食，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>什么要买的话，尼莫会像其他家长<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，在外面等待<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>下课。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">下午六点，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">最终</span>结束完一天的课程，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的爸爸妈妈会带她去吃晚饭，而尼莫则会提前返回家中，趁雇主一家在外吃饭的时间，把自己收拾好，等雇主回到家时，还得给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>洗漱，热牛奶等,做完一切后，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">差不多<span style="color: black;">已经是</span><span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>10点，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">最终</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>下班了。</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">以上<span style="color: black;">便是</span>尼莫做住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>一天的<span style="color: black;">平常</span>生活，简单而充实，像<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的一天，尼莫<span style="color: black;">一月</span>需要做26天，<span style="color: black;">每一个</span>月的工资是<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">1.5万</span></strong>,1.5万是纯工资收入，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>吃住都在雇主家，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">一月</span>下来，尼莫能攒到不少钱。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">最让尼莫感到幸福的是，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">在北京这么一个寸土寸金的<span style="color: black;">地区</span>，她在雇主家能有一间属于自己的卧室</span></strong>，这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>为她节省了不少的开支，毕竟<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>自己一个人在外租房子的话，<span style="color: black;">一月</span>的租金<span style="color: black;">亦</span>得需要3—4千元。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">下班后的时间<span style="color: black;">便是</span>属于尼莫的私人时间，尼莫有时会练习一会大学时期学过的声乐，<span style="color: black;">针对</span>她<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>这既是复习，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是放松自己的心情，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>住的房间是雇主的私人别墅，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>和雇主不住一个楼层，再加上房间的隔音效果<span style="color: black;">亦</span>比较好，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>并不会打扰到别人。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">和大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>爱美的女性<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一个比较精致的小姐姐，她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会买<span style="color: black;">各样</span>高档护肤用品，尼莫的消费观可能和<span style="color: black;">有些</span>人有冲突，有些人觉得她身为<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">不该</span>该<span style="color: black;">那样</span>精致，而是应该朴实踏实。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">面对<span style="color: black;">各样</span>质疑的声音，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不会去争辩什么，<strong style="color: blue;">她<span style="color: black;">每日</span>都<span style="color: black;">奋斗</span>地把自己的本职工作做好，在那之外，她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是独立的个体，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有追求自己生活方式的权利。</strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尽管从事<span style="color: black;">保母</span>工作，但尼莫并<span style="color: black;">无</span>停下学习的步伐，她买了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">相关</span>家庭教育的书籍，例如《儿童心理学》、《正面管教》、《<span style="color: black;">捉捕</span>儿童<span style="color: black;">敏锐</span>期》等，用来<span style="color: black;">加强</span>自己的专业能力。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">在尼莫看来，无论是做住家保姆还是住家家教都应该具备几项<span style="color: black;">必须</span>的技能。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">首要</span>是<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，有耐心。这是<span style="color: black;">必须</span>的，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>不<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的话，很难适应这个职业。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第二<span style="color: black;">便是</span>要有正确的三观和<span style="color: black;">心理</span>。</span></strong>做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>和做员工都是<span style="color: black;">同样</span>的，有时候自己的观念难免会和雇主不<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，雇主遇到不满意的事情时难免会说两句，但这<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是大部分员工都会遇到的问题，在尼莫看来，只要自己<span style="color: black;">心理</span>好，这些问题都不是问题。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第三<span style="color: black;">便是</span>不要计较干活。</span></strong><span style="color: black;">由于</span>是住在雇主家里，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>多干一点少干一点都<span style="color: black;">无</span>关系。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第四<span style="color: black;">便是</span>心胸宽大。</span></strong>尼莫在工作的时候，曾经遇到过那种爱挑拨关系的阿姨，遇到这种事情时，尼莫会<span style="color: black;">选取</span>把事情摊开<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>清楚</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第五个<span style="color: black;">便是</span>开车的技能。</span></strong>在<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>这个社会，会开车基本上<span style="color: black;">已然</span><span style="color: black;">作为</span>住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的一个<span style="color: black;">必须</span>技能了，驾龄越长越好，开过的车型<span style="color: black;">亦</span>越多越好。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">第六<span style="color: black;">便是</span>有<span style="color: black;">有些</span>自己<span style="color: black;">善于</span>的小技能</span></strong>，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>会小语种，会做糕点，技能越多越好，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>会让雇主更加<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>，<span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>能<span style="color: black;">加强</span>自己的工资。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">最后是<span style="color: black;">持有</span>终身学习的<span style="color: black;">心理</span>，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>并不完美，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要与时俱进，主动学习<span style="color: black;">各样</span>新知识，<span style="color: black;">这般</span><span style="color: black;">才可</span>更好适应自己的角色。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">还有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人会有疑问，在雇主家住，难道<span style="color: black;">亦</span>要在雇主家吃饭吗？这个问题的回答当然是肯定的,<span style="color: black;">最少</span>尼莫的雇主是<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">包吃包住</span></strong>的。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫介绍，吃饭时<span style="color: black;">通常</span>都是雇主先吃，<span style="color: black;">保母</span>再吃，有时雇主家会实行分餐制，但尼莫<span style="color: black;">始终</span>在减肥，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>就自己花钱配置减脂餐，当然，自己买菜花销比<span style="color: black;">很强</span>，有时候她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会和雇主<span style="color: black;">一块</span>吃饭。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫很<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>厨艺，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>手艺<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不错，<span style="color: black;">平常</span>饭菜，蛋糕点心，样样手到擒来，她经常会在自己的短视频中分享<span style="color: black;">有些</span>自己做美食的心得。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人<span style="color: black;">认识</span>了尼莫的<span style="color: black;">平常</span>工作后，会觉得尼莫的工作<span style="color: black;">叫作</span>之为家庭教师更贴切，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>尼莫的一天<span style="color: black;">重点</span>是围着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>转，辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>功课，接送<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>上下学，除了早饭，家务和做饭都<span style="color: black;">不消</span>做，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>考了教师资格证，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">像尼莫这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，更加符合国外的家庭教师的定义，叫<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">或</span>阿姨只是趋近<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>的刻板印象。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">认识</span>到尼莫的一天工作后，许多网友<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会有疑问，尼莫<span style="color: black;">重点</span>工作的地点是在雇主家中，自己的交友圈子<span style="color: black;">亦</span>比较小，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>还怎么找男<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>？</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">对此，尼莫的回答是，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">她是一个不婚主义者，<span style="color: black;">最少</span>到<span style="color: black;">日前</span>为止，她都是这么认为的。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">“我是一个比较向往自由的人，<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>在<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的城市居住，体验<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的生活方式，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>结婚的话，<span style="color: black;">那样</span>这些都<span style="color: black;">没法</span>实现了。”</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">由于</span>工作<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，这些年中，尼莫见识到了<span style="color: black;">各样</span>各样的家庭生活状态，<strong style="color: blue;">成年人的婚后生活，有的不仅是浪漫，还有一地鸡毛</strong>，见识多了，尼莫<span style="color: black;">逐步</span><span style="color: black;">再也不</span>对<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>有期望，她觉得<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>并不是她所必须的。</p>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">外界、家人的质疑</h1>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫最初只是在社交账号上分享自己的穿搭心得，从她<span style="color: black;">平常</span>的视频来看，尼莫是一个懂穿搭、干净甜美的90后姑娘，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">直到有一天，尼莫的妈妈刷到她的短视频</span></strong>，这才<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>，原来自己<span style="color: black;">始终</span>引以为傲的女儿，竟然在做住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的工作。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫的妈妈非常生气，她不明白女儿放着好好的工作不干，<span style="color: black;">为么</span>偏要去做“伺候人”的活计？一方面尼莫妈妈觉得女儿不争气，另一方面<span style="color: black;">亦</span>怕女儿当<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的消息被自己的亲戚<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>看到，怕别人说闲话。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">那天，尼莫妈妈在<span style="color: black;">微X</span>上把尼莫大骂一顿，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">需求</span>尼莫把之前发的两条关于“<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的一天工作”的视频删掉，最后还在气头上的尼莫妈妈直接把女儿的<span style="color: black;">微X</span>拉黑</span></strong>，妈妈的举动让尼莫感到很伤心，她觉得妈妈对自己的职业有偏见。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫妈妈的心情其实<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不难理解，她把尼莫培养到大，花费了无数的精力和金钱，为人父母总会望子成龙、望女成凤，<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>子女<span style="color: black;">成长</span>后能够有一份体面的工作和美好的家庭，但尼莫<span style="color: black;">成长</span>了却做着<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“伺候人”</span></strong>的工作，从一个母亲的<span style="color: black;">方向</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>是比较难以接受的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在中国父母的传统认知中，子女工作是有分层的，据统计，中国父母对子女最为满意的职业是公务员、事业单位人员、<span style="color: black;">大夫</span>、教师，即便这些职业的工资<span style="color: black;">广泛</span>不高，但在老一辈父母的眼中，这些职业能让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在亲戚<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>中感到有面子。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然父母并不认同尼莫的职业，但尼莫还是<span style="color: black;">保持</span>自己的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。其实，在尼莫看来，自己并不是一个听话的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，她从小到大都比较独立，从12岁时<span style="color: black;">起始</span>住校，<span style="color: black;">始终</span>到大学毕业，中间所有比较重要的事情都是她自己拿主意，毕业之后去日本游学<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是尼莫自己做的决定。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">关于父母给自己的<span style="color: black;">意见</span>，尼莫<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>自己<span style="color: black;">必定</span>会<span style="color: black;">做为</span>参考，但这并不<span style="color: black;">寓意</span>着自己能够接受父母的<span style="color: black;">意见</span>。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">其实尼莫的妈妈反对尼莫做这份工作，还有<span style="color: black;">另一</span>一个<span style="color: black;">原由</span>，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>她并不赞同尼莫<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“不婚主义”</span></strong>的婚恋观，尤其是尼莫连<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>都<span style="color: black;">无</span>谈过，她想让尼莫换一份工作，换个<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的生活圈子，多接触<span style="color: black;">有些</span>男<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">一个<span style="color: black;">女子</span>子到了30岁都还<span style="color: black;">无</span>谈过<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>，这听起来或许会令人感到<span style="color: black;">难以置信</span>，可尼莫<span style="color: black;">便是</span>这么一个单纯的姑娘。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大学之前，尼莫上的都是寄宿学校，几乎所有的时间都花费在了学习和声乐上，上了大学后，除了学习外，尼莫<span style="color: black;">每日</span>都在琴房练习钢琴，学校<span style="color: black;">无</span>小提琴老师，尼莫的父母就花钱在外面找小提琴老师，花钱上小提琴课，那必须更加认真，<span style="color: black;">因此</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>就<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">无</span>时间和精力谈<span style="color: black;">爱情</span></span></strong>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">课余时间，尼莫还在一家小提琴行兼职小提琴老师，给自己赚点零花钱，闲暇时间还会接点商演，例如<span style="color: black;">机构</span>年会，楼盘开业等<span style="color: black;">各样</span>小提琴商演。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">大学毕业后，尼莫又去了日本游学，在日本留学<span style="color: black;">时期</span>尼莫半工半读，<span style="color: black;">白日</span>上课，<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>打工，异国他乡，交友圈子<span style="color: black;">亦</span>小，<span style="color: black;">因此</span>并<span style="color: black;">无</span>遇到合适的人。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">回国之后，尼莫从事<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>行业，在剧组工作的时候，黑白颠倒，<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>经常熬夜，这就更没机会谈<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>了。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">后来尼莫阴差阳错进入了家政行业，生活圈子缩小，更遇不到合适的人，尼莫自我调侃，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">到30岁还<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">爱情</span>的令一个<span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>人追她，她自己<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>主动<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>过别人。</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫之前还和父母开玩笑，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">说<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>到30岁还<span style="color: black;">无</span>男<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>的话，就报名参加非诚勿扰找男<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>，</span></strong>眼看着<span style="color: black;">已然</span>到了30岁，尼莫却<span style="color: black;">选取</span>了不婚主义的生活方式。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">虽然是不婚主义，但这并不<span style="color: black;">表率</span>着尼莫<span style="color: black;">无</span>自己的<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>观，在尼莫心中，<span style="color: black;">爱情</span>应该是<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的，<span style="color: black;">容易</span>的，彼此<span style="color: black;">持有</span>各自的空间，<span style="color: black;">无</span>压迫感的。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有人说<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">结婚</span>和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的人生是不完整的，是<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">将来</span>的，<strong style="color: blue;">但在尼莫看来，<span style="color: black;">将来</span>是<span style="color: black;">怎么样</span>，谁<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>确定。她能确定的<span style="color: black;">便是</span>要热烈而自在地活着，按自己的想法活出自我。</strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">张闻天说，生活的理想<span style="color: black;">便是</span>为了理想的生活，而尼莫的生活<span style="color: black;">便是</span>她<span style="color: black;">日前</span>心中最理想的生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">除了家里人的反对，有些外界声音<span style="color: black;">亦</span>并<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>听。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有些人在尼莫的短视频下<span style="color: black;">发布</span>过激的评论，其中最过分的一条<span style="color: black;">便是</span>，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“你<span style="color: black;">青年</span><span style="color: black;">美丽</span>还有学历，干什么<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>？非要去有钱人家里当<span style="color: black;">保母</span>，这不是想小三上位吗？”</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">看到这种评论时，尼莫非常气愤，对此感到非常无语。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">“当小三<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是要有资本的吧！像我这种外貌平庸，身材普通，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>性格刚、说话直，又不会讨好别人的人，怎么可能做得来小三的工作？”</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫在雇主家工作时，会刻意与男雇主避嫌，几乎不跟男雇主直接交流，有交流<span style="color: black;">亦</span>只是讨论<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的学习，关于<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的其它事情，尼莫只会跟女雇主交流。</p>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">从质疑到尊重</h1>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">有人佩服尼莫的勇敢，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>自己在现实生活中不敢做任何违背父母意愿的事情、默默随大流，<strong style="color: blue;">但在尼莫的身上，<span style="color: black;">她们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>看到另一个自己，一个敢活出真实自我，不随大流的自己。</strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">幸运</span>的是，<span style="color: black;">经过</span>沟通，尼莫的父亲对尼莫的<span style="color: black;">选取</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>抱以最大的尊重，他为自己能够培养出这么多才多艺的女儿感到高兴，他<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己的女儿很优秀，坚强<span style="color: black;">阳光</span>，永远对对生活充满热情，这么优秀的女儿<span style="color: black;">不该</span>该被世俗的框架所限制。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">就连女儿不婚主义的想法，尼莫的爸爸<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">暗示</span>理解和支持。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">他对女儿说，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>结婚让你感到幸福的话，我会支持你结婚，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的生活方式能让你感到<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>的话，那我<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会全力支持你自己的决定。</span></strong></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">在尼莫爸爸的<span style="color: black;">长时间</span>“洗脑”下，尼莫妈妈<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">逐步</span><span style="color: black;">起始</span>理解自己女儿的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，其实尼莫妈妈<span style="color: black;">亦</span>明白反对无用，只要女儿过得开心，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">能从这份工作中<span style="color: black;">得到</span>成就感，那她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会尊重女儿的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</span></strong></p>
<h1 style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;">热爱工作，热爱生活</h1>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">看遍尼莫发布的短视频后，会<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>尼莫其实<span style="color: black;">便是</span>一个普通的90后姑娘，爱美，爱打扮，爱美食，热爱美好生活。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>自己最<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>的事情<span style="color: black;">便是</span>帮雇主姐姐买花</span></strong>，这是一件非常美好的事情，看到花朵的那一瞬间，一天的心情都愉悦。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人看了尼莫的短视频，会觉得尼莫是一个<span style="color: black;">非常</span><span style="color: black;">爱护</span>自己的人，例如她会花14万去做牙齿<span style="color: black;">纠正</span>，会<span style="color: black;">由于</span>发际线退后而植发，买<span style="color: black;">各样</span>护肤品，吃养生餐等等。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;">其实在尼莫看来，热爱生活的核心<span style="color: black;">便是</span>热爱自己，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>身体健康<span style="color: black;">才可</span>更好地享受生活。</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">为了让自己的身体更加健康，周一到周五，尼莫会严格<span style="color: black;">根据</span>计划规定吃减脂餐，周六周日会犒劳一下自己，吃点好吃的。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>下班后尼莫会进入属于她的<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“夜晚养生环节”</span></strong>。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">先是做一段减肥操，在做减肥运动的时候，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会放上一部自己<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>看的电影或电视剧，<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>完后再敷一个保湿面膜，泡个养生脚，充实的夜晚养生生活就结束，接下来<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">睡觉</span>时间。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫对生活的热情感染到<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人，有些人<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>是为了柴米油盐，有些人<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>只是为了更好享受生活，而尼莫属于后者。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫的真实名字叫刘宇，只<span style="color: black;">不外</span>身边的亲戚<span style="color: black;">伴侣</span>都习惯叫她尼莫，而一位雇主在尼莫面试成功后，去她家正式见面时的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>句话<span style="color: black;">便是</span><strong style="color: blue;">：“你是<span style="color: black;">期盼</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>叫你小宇还是尼莫呢？”</strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">简简单单的一句话却充分<span style="color: black;">表现</span>出一位雇主对雇工的尊重，尼莫心中瞬间倍感慰藉。</span></strong></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">从事住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>这个行业后，尼莫的工作<span style="color: black;">目的</span>很<span style="color: black;">知道</span>，她<span style="color: black;">期盼</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">经过</span>自己的<span style="color: black;">显现</span>帮到<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>妈妈们，在她们不在家<span style="color: black;">或</span>出差、出国时<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不消</span>担心<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>们的衣食住行，让她们有时间去奋斗自己的事业，<span style="color: black;">或</span>做自己感兴趣的事情，能做到这一点，尼莫就<span style="color: black;">已然</span>很满足了。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">尼莫曾经说过，住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>只是她想尝试的工作之一，<span style="color: black;">况且</span>做这个行业<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>有五年了，她今后想尝试一下别的工作，去年的时候，尼莫曾跟雇主商量过，<span style="color: black;">期盼</span>能辞职<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>一下，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>带爸妈去三亚旅游。</p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">值得一提的是，2022年3月，尼莫还收到了央视节目<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">《开门大吉》</span></strong>的邀请，她对待职业和生活的态度得到了央视的认可，<span style="color: black;">第1</span>次参加大型娱乐节目时尼莫有些紧张，<span style="color: black;">不外</span>尼莫全程发挥稳定，得到了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>观众的<span style="color: black;">喜欢</span>。</p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;">关于<span style="color: black;">将来</span>，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>自己<span style="color: black;">将来</span>会从事何种工作，但<strong style="color: blue;">在尼莫眼中，职业不分高低贵贱，谁<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>规定大学生<span style="color: black;">不可</span>做<span style="color: black;">保母</span>，小学生<span style="color: black;">不可</span>当老板，做自己<span style="color: black;">爱好</span>的事最重要，不忘初心，奋发向上，无论何种职业，<span style="color: black;">仅有</span>奋斗者才是最美的。</strong></p>
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