90后高材生在北京做住家保母,月入1万5被妈妈拉黑，网友:值得吗？
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫，29岁，未婚单身女青年，个子小巧，五官可爱。她从24岁<span style="color: black;">起始</span>做住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>，<span style="color: black;">迄今</span>已入行5年了。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫大学时学的是音乐专业，毕业后她去到日本游学一年，同龄的小伙伴有考公务员的，有回家进国企的，还有留在大城市进企业打拼的，尼莫却在机缘巧合之下<span style="color: black;">作为</span>了一名住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">日前</span>市面上的住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">大都是</span>年纪比较大的阿姨，<span style="color: black;">重点</span>负责照顾雇主家庭的衣食住行，像尼莫这么<span style="color: black;">青年</span>的比较罕见。会外语、拉小提琴、弹钢琴，多才多艺的尼莫想找一份长辈眼中“体面”的工作并不困难，<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>尼莫的妈妈<span style="color: black;">没法</span>理解女儿的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在得知女儿的职业后，妈妈<span style="color: black;">选取</span>拉黑了女儿的<span style="color: black;">微X</span>。尼莫在被母亲拉黑后，站在寒风中录了一段视频：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“我妈对我职业有偏见，<span style="color: black;">不睬</span>解我，可我还是想继续发。”</span></span></strong><span style="color: black;">得到</span>了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人的点赞和鼓励。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫陪<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>练琴</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一位90后<span style="color: black;">女子</span>，正是风华正茂的年纪，何以会<span style="color: black;">选取</span>“住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>”<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一个“看人脸色”的职业呢？她在各大社交<span style="color: black;">媒介</span>上分享<span style="color: black;">平常</span>而<span style="color: black;">诱发</span>对这个职业的争议，对她个人而言又有<span style="color: black;">那些</span>影响呢？</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">作为</span>住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>实属偶然</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫是艺术生出身。2014年，她毕业于某所本科院校的音乐系，主修声乐和小提琴。高中的时候，尼莫的成绩并不是太好，她主动提出和父母提出转学艺术。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">毕业后，尼莫<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>继续在这条路上发展，而是去了日本游学了一年。<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">时期</span>爸妈<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>了大部分的学费，自己半工半读支付生活费和房租。</span></span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">回国后，她在北京找了一份<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>师的工作。偶然有一次，在为一个节目嘉宾<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>时，对方<span style="color: black;">认识</span>到尼莫会日语、会乐器，于是向她发出邀请，问她愿不愿意去自己家里做住家阿姨，<span style="color: black;">重点</span>是能开车接送<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>和辅导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫刚<span style="color: black;">起始</span>很犹豫，毕竟一个正值青春年华的<span style="color: black;">女子</span>跟“住家”、“阿姨”、“<span style="color: black;">保母</span>”这些字眼搭配在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>，多少有点奇怪，家里估计<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>接受。但另一方面，<span style="color: black;">日前</span><span style="color: black;">打扮</span>师的工作自己越来越<span style="color: black;">没法</span>适应，经常要昼夜颠倒<span style="color: black;">长时间</span>熬夜，身体<span style="color: black;">亦</span>吃不消。思虑再三，尼莫觉得去住家还能顺便<span style="color: black;">处理</span><span style="color: black;">本来</span>占据大头的吃住开销，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许是个不错的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，于是决定一试。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">不外</span>她<span style="color: black;">亦</span>给了自己三天的适应期，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>实在接受不了这个行业，三天后就撤退。</span></span></strong>没成想，这一做就做到<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫讲述入行<span style="color: black;">原由</span> @北京90后住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>尼莫</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">如今，尼莫的<span style="color: black;">第1</span>家雇主早已移民去了国外，<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的雇主则是<span style="color: black;">经过</span>家政<span style="color: black;">机构</span>找到的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">和普通洗衣做饭的<span style="color: black;">保母</span><span style="color: black;">区别</span>，尼莫的工作更像是高级家政与家庭教师的结合体。</span></span></strong>尼莫<span style="color: black;">每日</span>的工作，除了为<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>准备早餐、开车接送、打扫房间卫生之外，她还需要<span style="color: black;">指点</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学习、陪练钢琴、学习外语，<span style="color: black;">即时</span>反馈和<span style="color: black;">调节</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的心理问题，相当于<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">24小时一对一的辅导老师。</span></span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫的小红书</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">刚来到雇主家时，尼莫是<span style="color: black;">无</span>自己房间的，都是与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>同住，衣服、鞋子等物品<span style="color: black;">一般</span>都是和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的混放在<span style="color: black;">一起</span>。<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的她<span style="color: black;">已然</span>有了独立的房间，在雇主家房子的地下一层。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">虽然房间位置是地下一层，但<span style="color: black;">平常</span>采光并<span style="color: black;">无</span>什么太大的影响。从去年10月<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，在征得女雇主的同意后，尼莫<span style="color: black;">起始</span>在网上发自己的<span style="color: black;">平常</span>Vlog。<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许是尼莫的形象与<span style="color: black;">大众</span>印象里住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>的样子截然<span style="color: black;">区别</span>，视频发出后，尼莫收获了许多来自陌生人善意与鼓励。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">此前，尼莫的父母<span style="color: black;">始终</span>是不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>女儿在北京是做什么的，在网友的鼓舞下，尼莫觉得是时候告诉爸妈了，便把视频转发给了妈妈。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">没想到，妈妈一时间难以接受，给尼莫留下一句：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“我心里不是滋味，想哭。”</span></span></strong>之后，便拉黑了她。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>自网络</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">不止是妈妈，<span style="color: black;">不睬</span>解的大有人在。<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>人留言给尼莫问她不会觉得委屈吗？不会觉得被人使唤心里很不是滋味吗？</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫自己倒是觉得没什么，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>只是一份工作，雇主就相当于自己的领导。领导下派任务，做错事情被领导批评等等都是职场里稀松平常的事情，完全<span style="color: black;">不必</span>伤心难过<span style="color: black;">或</span>委屈不安。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">好在尼莫的妈妈<span style="color: black;">火速</span>想通了：既然是女儿的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，那肯定是经过了深思熟虑的，自己支持她就好了。</span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">更有人在质疑尼莫对自己的定位：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“你这个应该算是住家教师，不是<span style="color: black;">保母</span>。”</span></span></strong>对此，尼莫的<span style="color: black;">回复</span>是：单纯的住家教师是不需要承担做饭和打扫这类工作的，出于严谨的态度，她认为“住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>”是最贴切的形容。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在时间还不算长的住家生涯里，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>给自己立下了一个原则：要让雇主觉得聘用自己“物超所值”。</span></span></strong>换言之，她会主动承担<span style="color: black;">有些</span>与雇主约定以外的工作，让雇主感受到雇佣<span style="color: black;">这般</span>一个住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>是有价值<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>超值的。事实证明她做到了，雇主一家对她相当信任。<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的爸妈偶尔出差，完全<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">安心</span>将<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>交给她。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">经常与<span style="color: black;">要求</span>较好的人家打交道，尼莫<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>自己不可能一点不<span style="color: black;">仰慕</span>别人的家庭环境，可<span style="color: black;">同期</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>看到了<span style="color: black;">非常多</span><span style="color: black;">懊恼</span>，家庭<span style="color: black;">包袱</span>与家庭环境几乎是成正比的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>让我过<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的生活，我可能<span style="color: black;">亦</span>无力承担。”</span></span></strong></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">“害怕稳定”的独立<span style="color: black;">女子</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在辗转接触过几个家庭后，尼莫更加坚定了自己<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">不要结婚、不要生<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></span></span></strong>的想法。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在这些经济<span style="color: black;">要求</span>都较为优越的家庭里，父母<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>多抽出时间<span style="color: black;">陪同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，享受家庭生活的乐趣。虽然<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的日子<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很温馨和美好，但在尼莫的心里，这是一种<span style="color: black;">捆绑</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">热爱自由的她并不想被<span style="color: black;">结婚</span>、家庭和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">绑缚</span>，在她想象的家庭组合角色里，<span style="color: black;">始终</span>是爸爸妈妈和自己，而不是自己<span style="color: black;">作为</span>妻子和母亲。 <strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“稳定这个东西，是我最害怕的。”</span></span></strong>尼莫说。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/7e71d0997a8149eb85ba81b409358fba~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1729410947&x-signature=1SNeVHqzTbeTOpu53LhK1nG8GTM%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>网络</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在对自己的职业规划里，她秉持着<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“走一步看一步”</span></span></strong>的态度。<span style="color: black;">由于</span>爱看综艺，抱着想近距离接触明星的愿望，她去做了<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>师；因为偶然的机会尝试进入新行业，<span style="color: black;">作为</span>了一名住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">崇尚自由的态度，并<span style="color: black;">无</span>让尼莫以前的职业经历白走。</span></span></strong>她教雇主的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>拉小提琴，给需要参加活动的女主人<span style="color: black;">打扮</span>……她在<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>的职业中能够将学过的东西再次利用，<span style="color: black;">针对</span>尼莫<span style="color: black;">来讲</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>是一种很<span style="color: black;">奥妙</span>的感受。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span><span style="color: black;">将来</span>，尼莫的设想是能去体验各个城市<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的生活方式，做一个自由职业者。</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/05e5fba03866462696e48909b36e4edc~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1729410947&x-signature=xiEKBVWVP24MlkZLYINJxYw%2BYp8%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">图片<span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">不外</span>，尼莫<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不是完全<span style="color: black;">无</span>计划过什么事情。<strong style="color: blue;">在“变美”这件事上，她给自己制定了一个“三步改造计划”，<span style="color: black;">日前</span>基本<span style="color: black;">已然</span>实现。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因为</span>对自己的外形不自信，尼莫其实骨子里是一个有点自卑的姑娘，她热爱模仿和表演，却经常觉得自己<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>看还腿粗，还为此遭受过<span style="color: black;">朋友</span>的嘲笑和老师的不公平对待。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">虽然曾经跟父母提过改变外形的想法，<span style="color: black;">然则</span>父母觉得女儿<span style="color: black;">基本</span>不需要。独立<span style="color: black;">挣钱</span>后，尼莫决定自己执行：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">第1</span>步是植发，第二步是正畸，第三步是近视手术。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">植发前，尼莫<span style="color: black;">无</span>知会爸妈；做完后才跟父母坦白实情。父亲在看到女儿植发照片的刹那，流下了眼泪，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许是出于心疼，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>许是懊悔自己没能陪在女儿身边。事后，父亲<span style="color: black;">暗示</span>同意，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>，他<span style="color: black;">亦</span>会支持尼莫，但最好能<span style="color: black;">保准</span>手术是安全可逆的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">正畸是尼莫<span style="color: black;">日前</span>花费最多的项目，总数达到了14万。</span></span></strong><span style="color: black;">由于</span>积蓄不足以支付治疗<span style="color: black;">花费</span>，还借了分期。<strong style="color: blue;">“这是一次不太理性的消费，超出了我的能力范畴，以后应该不会再<span style="color: black;">这般</span>了。”</strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/ac952e722bbb408d8286e39e353c1fe4~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1729410947&x-signature=8Cg1urUtrfJeUYeeJxdVQQs5nDg%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫的抖音</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">最后的近视手术<span style="color: black;">最后</span>尼莫<span style="color: black;">选取</span>了放弃，<span style="color: black;">重点</span>是害怕干眼症等副<span style="color: black;">功效</span>的<span style="color: black;">显现</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫热爱自由又独立自主，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的个性培养与爸妈的熏陶和成长环境是分不开的。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">她的老家在山东东营，初高中都是寄宿制。全封闭式的学校让她培养了很强的独立生活能力，养<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>凡事都自己做决定的习惯。尽管父母都是相对保守的国企员工，可<span style="color: black;">她们</span>依然给了尼莫自由的家庭氛围，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">从小到大基本上尼莫想做的事情，父母基本都会无<span style="color: black;">要求</span>地支持。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/4d1e6e7116984345a0789f577def2850~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1729410947&x-signature=yYveMNBN%2BosstX8vhJjWyT1b3qk%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>尼莫</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">毕业后，她想去日本，爸爸马上抱回来一大堆留学介绍资料。虽然最后尼莫只是去日本体验生活，并<span style="color: black;">无</span>如父母期待的<span style="color: black;">通常</span>申请<span style="color: black;">科研</span>生，父母<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>反对。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在尼莫告诉父母自己“不婚”时，爸爸是赞成的，妈妈偶尔会催一催尼莫找对象，但<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能接受女儿的想法。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>爸爸妈妈给予自己宽松的教育环境，尼莫<span style="color: black;">也</span><span style="color: black;">非常</span>感激。她<span style="color: black;">此刻</span>正在攒钱，决定带着爸妈<span style="color: black;">一块</span>去三亚旅行，欣赏旅途的风景，拍<span style="color: black;">有些</span><span style="color: black;">宝贵</span>且美好的照片。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“小时候，我爸妈带过我去国内各个城市旅游。我老觉得，自己挣钱这么些年了都没带<span style="color: black;">她们</span>俩出去玩过，有点<span style="color: black;">愧疚</span>。”</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">家政从业者的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>化</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">据山东大嫂的管理系统统计，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">日前</span>登记注册的家政服务员有3000余人，其中年龄在20到30岁的约占20%，相比往年呈<span style="color: black;">提升</span>趋势。</span></span></strong>而年轻人在<span style="color: black;">选取</span>家政服务上<span style="color: black;">重点</span>以保育婴师、月嫂、催乳师、家务师等热门职业为主。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">相比较传统<span style="color: black;">道理</span>上的家政，新一代的家政<span style="color: black;">再也不</span>只是擦擦桌面，客户对<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的<span style="color: black;">需求</span>更高。<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>还是像传统<span style="color: black;">道理</span>上由阿姨来服务，服务不多久就会<span style="color: black;">由于</span>体力<span style="color: black;">原由</span><span style="color: black;">引起</span>效率下降。<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>，<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">家政从业者的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>化<span style="color: black;">已然</span>是<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的趋势。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>网络</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">与此<span style="color: black;">同期</span>，<span style="color: black;">按照</span><span style="color: black;">关联</span>数据，2021年全国普通高校毕业生规模预计为909万人，比2020年<span style="color: black;">增多</span>35万人，创历史新高。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">针对</span>大<span style="color: black;">都数</span>人而言，想要找到一份工作并不难，找到一份理想的工作才难，<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人尤其如此。<span style="color: black;">日前</span>家政从业人员缺口达到3000万，预计到2022年这一人数将达到4000万人，这其实是一个巨大的就业缺口。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">只是<span style="color: black;">由于</span>偏见的存在，愿意去从事该行业的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人很少。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>看客</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">尼莫是一个勇敢的<span style="color: black;">女子</span>，<span style="color: black;">更加是</span><span style="color: black;">此刻</span>独立自主的新时代<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人的<span style="color: black;">表率</span>之一，跟她有着<span style="color: black;">一样</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>的<span style="color: black;">青年</span>人<span style="color: black;">亦</span>在慢慢<span style="color: black;">增加</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">这些<span style="color: black;">持有</span>优越的教育背景，<span style="color: black;">把握</span>外语、乐器等多项技能的90后女性，从事家庭服务业的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>，一方面是个人志趣使然，另一方面<span style="color: black;">也</span>展现出家庭服务业的高端化市场<span style="color: black;">需要</span>。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">照片</span><span style="color: black;">源自</span>网络</span></span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">单看尼莫的个人履历，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>很难将她和“住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>”联系在<span style="color: black;">一块</span>。但事实上，随着时代进步，职业等级论<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>让<span style="color: black;">位置于</span>个体的<span style="color: black;">选取</span>自由与从中<span style="color: black;">得到</span>的自我认同。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">就像尼莫说的那样：<strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“你只要去<span style="color: black;">选取</span>你想干的事，并且在这之中能<span style="color: black;">得到</span><span style="color: black;">愉快</span>”，便已足够。不难<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>，她由衷地热爱这一职业，而住家<span style="color: black;">保母</span>为她创造的自我价值感更加支撑了她的选择。</span></span></strong></span></p>
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