wloe2gf 发表于 2024-9-26 17:02:15

【家庭劳动教育心得】孩儿会做家务，自理和自控能力都不会差


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    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学做家务，看起来似乎和学习<span style="color: black;">无</span>多大的关系，但学习中不可或缺的自理和自控能力，恰恰是最容易在家务劳动中养成的。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/3GiaRJ9eVkIGlSPoxFfo2cymtgHZukZSX8KsVjPl0HY99QoDmjHwAvOuB9CL8GZjNB41rUr7febrLrlKTa040Gg/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有专家总结出<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务好处：帮<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">加强</span>动手动脑的能力，激发求知欲、探索欲和自<span style="color: black;">自信心</span>，<span style="color: black;">加强</span>学习能力，懂得举一反三。教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学会时间管理和<span style="color: black;">统一</span>规划，懂得<span style="color: black;">爱护</span>劳动成果、尊重他人。培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>吃苦耐劳的精神，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>独立自主的品质。增进亲子关系。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">虽然让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务有这么多的好处，可<span style="color: black;">实质</span>上<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>经常看到的场景却是<span style="color: black;">这般</span>：父母把读好书当成<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的头等大事，<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>，家中的家务活基本上是父母包办了，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>动脑学习的机会倒是不少，但很少动手做家务。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在这种家庭教育环境中，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>过度依赖于父母，自然就缺少基本的生活自理能力和劳动能力等。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1、</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不会自理，最大的责任还是在父母身上</span></strong></span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">自理能力这个概念很简单，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>指人们在生活中照料自己、<span style="color: black;">自动</span><span style="color: black;">处理</span>问题的<span style="color: black;">行径</span>能力，<span style="color: black;">包含</span>生活自理能力、学习自理能力等等。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>父母都会主动关注<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>诸如生活、学习、才艺等方面技能的训练，却常常<span style="color: black;">忽略</span>了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在吃饭、穿衣、个人卫生等生活自理能力方面的养成，颇有一种厚彼薄此的感觉。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">当<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>抱怨<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>缺乏生活自理能力时，却<span style="color: black;">无</span><span style="color: black;">认识</span>到这一点：<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不会自理的最大责任并不在<span style="color: black;">她们</span>身上，而是在父母身上。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">有<span style="color: black;">非常多</span>父母认为，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>只要<span style="color: black;">每日</span>专注于学习就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>了，学习是头等大事，结果<span style="color: black;">便是</span>父母轻易不让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>动手做家务，而是自己大包大揽了所有的家务事。在这种<span style="color: black;">状况</span>下，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>确实能把<span style="color: black;">更加多</span>的时间和精力放在学习上，但无形之中失去了<span style="color: black;">必定</span>的生活自理能力，不会生活自理的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，在学习上<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">一样</span>不会自理。<span style="color: black;">导致</span>有的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">已然</span>上小学了，却还不<span style="color: black;">晓得</span>基本的生活自理。很显然，<span style="color: black;">这般</span>的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在自主学习能力方面<span style="color: black;">亦</span>培养不起来。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在这种家庭氛围下成长的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，容易养成不愿意自己动手<span style="color: black;">办事</span>、高度依赖于父母的坏习惯。其直接后果<span style="color: black;">便是</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的生活能力被弱化、劳动<span style="color: black;">认识</span>淡薄、<span style="color: black;">办事</span>畏手畏脚、抗挫能力低。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2、</span>常做家务<span style="color: black;">能够</span>培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的自理能力</span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的成长过程中，家务劳动和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>认知能力的发展、动手能力的发展、自主学习能力的发展、责任感的培养等都有着密不可分的关系。</span><span style="color: black;">学习做家务是<span style="color: black;">提高</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自理能力的最直接的方式，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是培养自律能力的重要前提。</span></p><img src="https://mmbiz.qpic.cn/mmbiz_png/3GiaRJ9eVkIGlSPoxFfo2cymtgHZukZSXbdicS7UDGVFKtibohAfechReN3ctQMGjTWfa8nw7aXmGhu23tic99q8pA/640?wx_fmt=png&amp;tp=webp&amp;wxfrom=5&amp;wx_lazy=1&amp;wx_co=1" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;">
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每一个</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>都会有自我价值实现的追求，<span style="color: black;">她们</span>在完成扫地、抹桌子、洗碗、整理房间、折叠衣物等家务的每一次的过程中，就会体验到一种成功感，这种成功感能够使<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>变得越来越自信。就以<span style="color: black;">大众</span>比较关注的学习<span style="color: black;">来讲</span>，<span style="color: black;">各样</span>调查<span style="color: black;">科研</span>均<span style="color: black;">表示</span>，经常做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，其成绩优秀的概率要超过不做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>在生活中应当鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>多参与<span style="color: black;">有些</span>力所能及的家务劳动，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>洗碗、拖地、整理个人内务等，<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>进入生活自理能力和自主学习能力相互促进<span style="color: black;">加强</span>的良性循环的状态。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">3、</span>培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务习惯的七个<span style="color: black;">过程</span></span></strong></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">此刻</span><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要<span style="color: black;">处理</span>一个问题：<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>养成做家务的好习惯。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">按照</span>以下七个<span style="color: black;">过程</span>，来培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的好习惯。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第1步，信任<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，学会放手。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>只要抓住了“信任”和“放手”这两个关键，培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的问题就几乎<span style="color: black;">处理</span>了一半。信任<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务，才不会担心<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做<span style="color: black;">欠好</span>家务而患得患失；放手让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>去做家务，<span style="color: black;">才可</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>创设学做家务的成长机会，否则<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>永远<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">无</span>机会去尝试。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第2步，给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>的权利。<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span>一份所有<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>力所能及的家务<span style="color: black;">名单</span>，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自由<span style="color: black;">选取</span>其中的几项家务。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第3步，把家务活“细化和趣味化”。其中的关键<span style="color: black;">便是</span>要让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>该<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>做家务，父母<span style="color: black;">能够</span>适当地给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务培训和示范。<span style="color: black;">另外</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>还<span style="color: black;">能够</span>把家务活“趣味化”，创造有趣的方式让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>轮换工作。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第4步，父母和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>做家务。这一方面便于观察<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的<span style="color: black;">状况</span>，排除安全隐患方面的问题；另一方面，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>在这个过程中进行相应的引导，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一块</span>讨论和做家务<span style="color: black;">相关</span>联的知识点，教会<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>合适的工具，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>还<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">按照</span><span style="color: black;">详细</span><span style="color: black;">状况</span>来引导<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>思考<span style="color: black;">怎么样</span>改良工具等。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第5步，不影响到<span style="color: black;">成人</span>和<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>双方的正常作息安排。<span style="color: black;">例如</span>，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要提前讨论和预估完成家务的时间，<span style="color: black;">倘若</span>没能在规<span style="color: black;">按时</span>间内完成家务，就要<span style="color: black;">一块</span>寻找<span style="color: black;">原由</span>和改进办法。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第6步，鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>进行自我挑战。随着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>年龄的增长和心智的健全，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做<span style="color: black;">有些</span>有<span style="color: black;">必定</span>难度和挑战性的家务，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>烹制几道菜、修理家里坏掉的小家电、组装较为<span style="color: black;">繁杂</span>的玩具等等。这能进一步激发<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的价值感和成就感。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">第7步，召开家庭会议进行复盘。在家庭会议上，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span>要先肯定<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在做家务上的进步，<span style="color: black;">而后</span>再总结成功和失败的经验，<span style="color: black;">促进</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>下次做得更好。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">咱们</span>需要<span style="color: black;">重视</span>的是，做家务和家庭教育<span style="color: black;">同样</span>，是循序渐进的，<span style="color: black;">咱们</span><span style="color: black;">不可</span>急功近利，而是要给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一个<span style="color: black;">逐步</span>养成良好的劳动习惯的过程。</span></p>
    <p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">一个具备生活自理能力的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，将有更好的自控能力，无疑，这有助于培养<span style="color: black;">她们</span>的自主学习能力。</span></p>
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