儿童做家务对照表，舍不得用孩儿才会耽误他！
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">Facebook创始人扎克伯格曾在一次采访中，</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">分享了家庭生活的<span style="color: black;">平常</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">视频中，他的两个女儿马克西玛和奥古斯特系着围裙，</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在<span style="color: black;">成人</span>的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>下，饶有兴致地擀面团、做面包。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">当记者问到</span><span style="color: black;">：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“会不会<span style="color: black;">由于</span>经济的宽裕，总是给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>东西？”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">扎克伯格夫妇一致回复：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">不会给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">非常多</span>东西，<span style="color: black;">由于</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>有自己的责任，平时<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有自己的家务要干。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">才五岁、三岁大的小<span style="color: black;">女子</span>，</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">就<span style="color: black;">已然</span>要承担自己的“责任”了。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">千万别小看了做家务这件小事情。从小就养成习惯做家务，对<span style="color: black;">将来</span>的影响是巨大的。</span></strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/58ecd8cbc61e443e89d4b349e5d641fc~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=narORmZHdk9fY9M7fea2H6y7y6Y%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">01</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务的能力</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">到底有什么好处？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">在<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>成长的过程中，家务劳动的进行与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的动作技能、认知能力的发展以及责任感的培养，有着密不可分的关系。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1. 会做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，成绩更优秀。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">中国教育科学<span style="color: black;">科研</span>院曾经对2万名家长和2万名小学生做过一项家庭教育状态调查，</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">调查结果<span style="color: black;">发掘</span>：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">认为“只要学习好，做不做家务都行”的家庭中，子女成绩优秀的比例仅为3.17%；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">认为“<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>应该做些家务”的家庭中，子女成绩优秀的比例为86.92%。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">相差了27倍不止！</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在繁重的功课间隙，抽出时间做些力所能及的家务，能够让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的大脑得到<span style="color: black;">休憩</span>和放松，从而更好地恢复学习的精力。</span></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">陆游有诗云：</span><span style="color: black;">“纸上得来终觉浅，绝知<span style="color: black;">这事</span>要躬行”。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">倘若</span>说，学习课本知识是“知”；<span style="color: black;">那样</span>做家务，<span style="color: black;">便是</span>一种低成本，又高收益的“行”。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“知行合一”，才是更有效的学习。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>说，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>会在<span style="color: black;">每日</span>浇花的过程中，直观地<span style="color: black;">认识</span>植物的生长过程；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">工序繁琐地做蛋糕，其实<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">包含</span>着面粉与蛋黄的化学反应原理；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每一种原料的精细配比，又考验着<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的数学功底；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">收拾衣服玩具、收纳桌子柜子，训练了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的空间思维，以及<span style="color: black;">恰当</span>安排先后<span style="color: black;">次序</span>的<span style="color: black;">规律</span>能力。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">每一项家务，都是在强化<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>从课本上学来的知识，并且“润物细无声”地<span style="color: black;">移植</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的大脑中。</span></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/1096a3704aa5446d943d421fb48cd817~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=bzAsRhG8oK4ZnwWjfPvhUvoCnVo%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2. 从小做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，共情能力更强，情商<span style="color: black;">亦</span>更高。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">哈佛大学学者曾经做过一项调查<span style="color: black;">科研</span>，得出一个惊人的结论：</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">爱干家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>和不爱干家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，成年之后的就业率为15∶1，<span style="color: black;">结婚</span><span style="color: black;">亦</span>更稳定。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">从小“衣来伸手、饭来张口”的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，很难理解这世上还有人过着衣不蔽体、食不果腹的生活；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">从不打扫房间的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">成长</span>后<span style="color: black;">亦</span>很难和<span style="color: black;">朋友</span>、同事<span style="color: black;">一块</span><span style="color: black;">守护</span>宿舍、办公室的整洁；</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">至于<span style="color: black;">哪些</span>父母不在，只会煮泡面的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">更加是</span>连独立<span style="color: black;">存活</span>都困难。</strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/b41a975d2b32486fa32d4948c96e708e~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=1h6pV6NKdqJtwVvHbJDcilHRpxc%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">还记得那个13岁上大学，17岁考上中科院的“神童”魏永康吗？</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">当年的魏永康，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>成绩优异<span style="color: black;">作为</span>各个名校争抢的对象，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">却在进入中科院不久后被“劝退”。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">原来，从小被母亲照顾得无微不至的魏永康，<span style="color: black;">成为了</span>校园里的“怪人”。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">进入中科院后，<span style="color: black;">由于</span>生活不会自理，言行举止怪异，<span style="color: black;">没法</span>和别人正常交流。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">被劝退后，魏母<span style="color: black;">起始</span>反思自己的教育方式，<span style="color: black;">再也不</span>大包大揽。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">魏永康渐渐地学会洗衣服、买菜，为家里来的客人端茶送水，慢慢变成一个“正常”“懂事”的小伙子。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">后来，魏永康娶了<span style="color: black;">妻子</span>、生了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">作为</span>工作稳定、家庭和睦的“普通人”。</span></span></p>
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<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">02</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">年龄<span style="color: black;">区别</span>，做的家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span><span style="color: black;">区别</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">那样</span>，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>几岁<span style="color: black;">起始</span>接触家务，最合适呢？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">教育<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>越早越好，教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span>是如此。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;">《人民日报》曾经发布过一份儿童学做家务年龄表，<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">作为</span>家长教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>学做家务的指南。</strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">9～24个月</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅给予<span style="color: black;">有些</span>简单的指示，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>自己拿汤匙吃饭。</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2～3岁</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅在家长的<span style="color: black;">指点</span>下，把垃圾扔进垃圾桶</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅当家长请求帮忙时，帮忙拿取东西</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅帮忙把衣服挂上衣架</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅浇花（家长给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>适量的水）</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅<span style="color: black;">夜晚</span>睡觉前整理自己的玩具</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">3～4岁</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅摆放碗筷和椅子</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅喂宠物</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅睡前帮忙铺床，如拿枕头、被子等</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅饭后自己把碗盘放到厨房水池里</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅帮忙把叠好的干净衣服放回衣柜</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅把自己的脏衣服放到装脏衣服的篮子里</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">4～5岁</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅自己铺床</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅饭前准备餐桌（从帮家长拿餐具<span style="color: black;">起始</span>，慢慢参与摆盘）</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅饭后收拾餐桌，把脏的餐具放回厨房</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅把洗好烘干的衣服叠好（家长要教<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">怎样</span>正确叠<span style="color: black;">区别</span>的衣服）</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅自己准备<span style="color: black;">次日</span>要穿的衣服</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅将自己用完的毛巾、牙刷挂好、放整齐</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">5～6岁</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅帮忙擦桌子</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅帮忙换床单（从帮忙把脏床单拿走，并拿来干净的床单<span style="color: black;">起始</span>）</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅自己准备<span style="color: black;">次日</span>去幼儿园要用的书包和要穿的鞋</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅收拾房间，养成把乱放的东西捡起来并放回原处的习惯</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">7～12岁</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅能在父母的<span style="color: black;">帮忙</span>下洗碗盘</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅做简单的饭</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅擦地</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅清洗洗手间</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅会用洗衣机</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">13岁以上</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅更换吸尘器里的垃圾袋</span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;">✅清理冰箱、灶台等</span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/8931f5fc7f334f3db84b69f1e038b403~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=CcRvsNnmyNhXMoGcvd4ILiZ0Y5U%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">03</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">父母要<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>做</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">才可</span>养成持久做家务的习惯？</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在培养<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>“做家务”这件事情上，会经历一个漫长又艰辛的过程。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">牢记以下这几点原则，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>更<span style="color: black;">容易</span>地让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>养成持久做家务的习惯：</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">1. 抓住<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的“家务<span style="color: black;">敏锐</span>期”。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>对家务<span style="color: black;">亦</span>有“<span style="color: black;">敏锐</span>期”，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">某个特定的时期，会对某一项家务产生<span style="color: black;">尤其</span>的兴趣。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">例如</span>，上了幼儿园的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">忽然</span>对厨房充满了好奇。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这个时候，不妨让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>走进厨房，帮忙洗洗菜、打打鸡蛋，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>能认识下烧饭炒菜的过程。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">除了对特定家务的“<span style="color: black;">敏锐</span>期”，<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在1岁半到2岁的<span style="color: black;">周期</span>，还会进入一个</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">“模仿<span style="color: black;">敏锐</span>期”</span></strong><span style="color: black;">。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这个<span style="color: black;">周期</span><span style="color: black;">爱好</span>模仿<span style="color: black;">成人</span>的<span style="color: black;">有些</span><span style="color: black;">行径</span>和习惯，<span style="color: black;">乃至</span>和<span style="color: black;">成人</span>“抢着干”。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">此时</span>候，父母就<span style="color: black;">能够</span>在<span style="color: black;">保准</span>安全的前提下，<span style="color: black;">尽可能</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>来尝试<span style="color: black;">各样</span>家务，从中体会劳动的<span style="color: black;">愉快</span>。</strong></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/64b9e8116bd04ae9b74e2d50c6a89612~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=5cC1LG8eyal5VS0r7hPbbONoeWU%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">2. 把任务细致化，并给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做示范。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">初学做家务的<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，离不开父母的耐心<span style="color: black;">指点</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">你叫<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>“把衣服捡起来”的时候，他可能真的只收上衣，并且只放在沙发上，还<span style="color: black;">因此呢</span>而沾沾自喜。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">父母<span style="color: black;">能够</span>用一边示范一边解说的方式，把“收衣服”这个过程进行分解。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">拆分成“摇衣架—取下衣服—<span style="color: black;">归类</span>—叠整齐—收衣柜”等<span style="color: black;">过程</span>，越细致越好。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在这个过程中提出的任何疑问，父母都要耐心回答，直到他能够独立完<span style="color: black;">作为</span>止。</span></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/ad8e54513ecc495b8807070cd7a6d51a~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=M%2Bl%2FGSMiiuYBk61qszSwI4F7ZMI%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">3. 给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">供给</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>的权利。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">在让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务前，</span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">能够</span>先列一张<span style="color: black;">名单</span>，写上<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>能够完成的所有家务，让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>其中的一两项。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">选取</span>了自己<span style="color: black;">爱好</span><span style="color: black;">或</span><span style="color: black;">善于</span>的家务，做好了自然更有成就感。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">很久</span>地重复某一项劳动，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>可能会使<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>感到厌烦。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这个时候，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span></span><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">变换做家务的内容</span></strong><span style="color: black;">，<span style="color: black;">或</span>在同一项家务上，<span style="color: black;">增多</span>新的内容和难度，给<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>一点挑战。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>不想做家务的时候，不要强迫<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>采用缓和<span style="color: black;">有些</span>的方式与<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>商量，<span style="color: black;">例如</span>：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“那你先去喝杯牛奶，再来收衣服，好吗？”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">又<span style="color: black;">或</span>：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“那妈妈跟你<span style="color: black;">一块</span>做，你收拾餐桌，我来洗碗，怎么样？”</span></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/8ef3561ab97f48869eab768861531bed~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=2efqEuCs5gcOMemg3tdq5Lb3LiY%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">4. 不要给<span style="color: black;">报酬</span>，“精神肯定”更重要。</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">有些家长为了让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>更愿意做家务，会采用“物质<span style="color: black;">报酬</span>”的办法鼓励<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>做家务，</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">乃至</span>精确到“洗<span style="color: black;">一起</span>碗、拖一次地板多少钱”。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">这种做法非常不可取。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">身为家庭的一份子，参与家庭劳动是一种责任。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">承担力所能及的家务，<span style="color: black;">更加是</span><span style="color: black;">每一个</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>成长不可或缺的过程。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">比起物质<span style="color: black;">报酬</span>，精神肯定对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>更重要。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">当<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>认真且<span style="color: black;">连续</span>完成某项家务的时候，<span style="color: black;">能够</span><span style="color: black;">即时</span>给予<span style="color: black;">褒扬</span>和肯定。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">其次，<span style="color: black;">能够</span>告诉<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>，他的劳动给家庭带来了更温馨舒适的环境，这会让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>非常骄傲。</span></span></p>
<div style="color: black; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 10px;"><img src="https://p3-sign.toutiaoimg.com/tos-cn-i-qvj2lq49k0/e1b28f56e7b34aaabfd951991240e3fa~noop.image?_iz=58558&from=article.pc_detail&lk3s=953192f4&x-expires=1727371768&x-signature=RM%2FkgWoRrAD3npcpxq2Xt46TVnw%3D" style="width: 50%; margin-bottom: 20px;"></div>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">04</span></span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">教育家苏霍姆林斯基曾告诫父母：</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">“不要把<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">守护</span>起来而不让<span style="color: black;">她们</span>劳动，<span style="color: black;">亦</span>不要怕<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的双手会磨出茧。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">要让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">晓得</span>，面包来之<span style="color: black;">很难</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">这种劳动对<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">来讲</span>是真正的<span style="color: black;">欢快</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">经过</span>劳动，不仅<span style="color: black;">能够</span>认识世界，<span style="color: black;">况且</span><span style="color: black;">能够</span>更好地<span style="color: black;">认识</span>自己。”</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">真正爱<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>的父母，不<span style="color: black;">必定</span>是为了<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>倾其所有、放弃自我，反而是懂得<span style="color: black;">怎样</span>“用”<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="color: black;">让<span style="color: black;">孩儿</span>在挥洒汗水的过程中，体验生活的酸甜苦辣，体会父母的辛苦与付出。</span></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">从而<span style="color: black;">熬炼</span>出生活的能力、<span style="color: black;">办事</span>的条理和做人的道理。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">而这一切，才是<span style="color: black;">伴同</span><span style="color: black;">孩儿</span><span style="color: black;">一辈子</span>的财富。</span></strong></span></p>
<p style="font-size: 16px; color: black; line-height: 40px; text-align: left; margin-bottom: 15px;"><span style="color: black;"><strong style="color: blue;"><span style="color: black;">与<span style="color: black;">大众</span>共勉！</span></strong></span></p>
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